Tired of listening to all sorts of fables, such as: a modern woman only needs money, a fur coat, a yacht, a villa and other elements of the "golden cage".
Not. From my own experience, I will say that this is not true. The above is really held in high esteem, but not among women. There has always been such a layer of female representatives who were looking for just that. And they found it. But there is no statistics, how many of these ladies found their happiness. I think only a few. The rest were destined for the fate of a slave, a sex toy, a servant until she left an attractive age, and then an exile.
Real women will never allow such treatment.
At all times, women have expected about the same from men. And at each time the same aspect was refracted under the prism of social foundations, political conditions, even natural anomalies.
The very first thing that a woman has always liked in dealing with a man is attention.
This is such a universal means of seducing a woman that from the standpoint of my own experience I will say that this means in modern society is the most acute shortage.
This very attention works from the moment of the first meeting between a man and a woman to the grave. You can be the most unpretentious admirer, but if this man knows and uses such a means, he will be the most desirable man in the heart of both his chosen one and outside women who will be drawn to him consciously and unconsciously.
At one time, while studying at the university, the tactics of communicating with people were worked out. One of the conditions of this life science was the strictest observance of the rule: give all your attention to anyone you meet today. No residue. So, if this person was the only representative of humanity who remained on the planet. This practice has been practiced for quite a long time - for several semesters it has been closely monitored. But I must say that even without control, such a communication technique very quickly becomes a habit, because it caused (and still causes) indescribable delight from its use.
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It turned out that the ability to give people attention is in great demand. Attention is a huge deficit in the human environment. The only difference is that the attention that women expect is different from that for men.
Sometimes I read headlines about how a woman will like it, how to find a good friend or girlfriend, how to be attractive in society and it becomes funny and sad.
Give the person your sincere attention. Find in a person those character traits that suit you and try to highlight them, because if a person is unpleasant to you, you will not be able to present sincerity and attention will turn into flattery, slyness and hypocrisy.
But, this is for a long term relationship. For everyday communication, only close attention.
And what about women? They are deprived of male attention and his meager crumbs do not satisfy female nature. A woman will never be happy without male attention, even if a man is not indifferent to her all his life. This is not enough! She needs attention.
Attention does not necessarily imply the satisfaction of any material need. Everything has its own measure and no one will jump above their own ears. Attention is an affectionate glance, a hand given in time, an exclamation of support, touch, care. Everything is elementary, but for some reason it is so reluctant to be understood by men. And women, too, do not really bother in their relationship to the opposite sex.
So there is a terrible deficit of this desired human quality.
In his life, he sometimes got into unpleasant situations when he communicated with women on the machine, using the habit of being a treasure of attention for the person he met. This was perceived so personally that it was concluded that I was serious about this lady. She didn’t know that I communicate like that with everyone.
From this experience, it was concluded that the overwhelming majority of women lack basic male attention for happiness.