Why do some marital unions, at first glance, strong and promising, suddenly fall apart, while in others, which initially seemed short-lived, mutual understanding reigns throughout their life together? Is it possible to understand the principle of the goodwill of fate in marriage matters and protect yourself in advance from a traumatic union? Astrology answers this question in the affirmative, however, often the secrets of creating a happy family need to be looked for much deeper than we are used to. A natal chart may not be enough.
"Marriages are made in heaven" - it would seem a hackneyed phrase, but the fidelity of the thought contained in it does not change from this. From the point of view of astrology, this is an axiom: husband and wife are predetermined to each other even before they were born, not that they met. However, even a truth that does not require proof, it is interesting to take a closer look in order to understand what it is based on.
MAN ASSUMES - GOD POSTS
There was a case in my practice. A woman turned to me after a divorce, I'll call her Natasha (*). She, like all her entourage, was sure: the marriage "will live to see the golden wedding" easily and naturally. But after a year and a half, the family broke up. I made the horoscopes of Natasha and her ex-husband. In the horoscope of compatibility, harmony was observed only in the interaction of the Suns of both through the aspect of sextile, and that is inaccurate. Otherwise … a man has Venus (a symbol of a lover and relationships) and the Moon (an image of a wife) in the signs of the elements of Earth, a woman has Venus (a symbol of relationships and temperament) and the Moon (an indicator of a woman's behavior in the family) in the signs of the elements of Fire and Air, respectively. Mars of Natasha's husband is in opposition to her Mars. So “the ground under their feet was burning” during quarrels and scandals. No interaction was found between the 5 (love, children) and 7 (partnership) houses of the horoscopes. I also looked at the man's closest relatives. All of them were born under one sun sign, while Natasha had the Black Moon in the same sign. And its negative impact on the Sun of potential relatives made kinship impossible - the couple did not have children.
THE WISDOM OF THE UNIVERSE
The Universe is wiser than us, it has knowledge beyond our understanding. It is no coincidence that the issue of compatibility of future partners occupied the minds of people both in the dark era of illiteracy and in the enlightened centuries of the latest technologies. And how little progress we have made towards acquiring this knowledge.
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Full of doubts, Katerina's relatives dissuaded from the wedding, they say, she and her husband are very different people. But some strange feeling of her own righteousness kept her near Alexei. But I wanted certainty - and Katya decided to ask the stars …
The grid of houses in both horoscopes presented an almost identical picture. The ascendants were almost in conjunction, in the same sign. The moons of both partners are in trine, both in the signs of the element of Water, in addition the Moon of a woman is in trine and with Venus of a man. In the same aspect, luck was between themselves and the Suns of both. Moreover, the man's Mars, the focus of his nature, was warmed up by the same trine from the woman's Sun. At the point of marriage of a man, the planet-ruler of the woman's solar sign was discovered. But the most remarkable thing was not even this: Katya's Sun was in conjunction with the Sun of her future father-in-law.
They entered into a marriage, and I got the opportunity to continue to follow the planetary alignments of this kind. The family had two children. Venus of the eldest child turned out to be in conjunction with the Moon of the father - a very common phenomenon, but I was especially impressed by the fact that the Sun of the youngest child was in almost exact conjunction with the Sun of his grandmother, father's mother. The life cycles of different generations completely coincided, making the relationship between Katya and Alexei indissoluble.
THE WILL OF HEAVEN IS INSURABLE
For a long time, for life, the Cosmos connects only those who have every chance for a long and lasting interaction. But before this union, the husband and wife need to be born under the light of specific luminaries and stars! And in order to be born to them, it was necessary to meet and marry their parents … and so on, and so on, into the boundless depth of centuries, which only the science of the stars can illuminate.
I knew one pair. With the future mother-in-law Larissa (wife) was not lucky: she did not give her son's blessing for the marriage of her son at one time, causing the bride to respond with rejection. However, the wedding took place, and the marriage safely passed all the Scyllas and Charybdis, moving in full swing towards the Silver Jubilee. During these twenty-five years, the characters of both women softened, they learned to get along.
Horoscopes showed that marriage from the very beginning had excellent chances of existence: the woman's Moon is in the same sign with the man's Sun, the woman's Mars is in the 1 (personality) house of the man's horoscope and in trine with his Mercury, and the man's Sun and the ruler of his horoscope are in 7 (partnership) house of a woman's horoscope. Mars and Venus of a man are in exact trine to the Ascendant of a woman, and the cusp of the 7th house of a woman is almost in exact conjunction with the cusp 5 (love, children) of the house of the man's horoscope.
A deeper study of the horoscopes of all relatives revealed the following. The sun of a man is in conjunction with the Sun of the father-in-law and the Moon of the mother-in-law. The moon of a man is in trine with the Moon of the father-in-law and in conjunction with the Ascendant of the father-in-law. Venus of a man is in the same sign with Venus of his father-in-law and in trine to the Sun of his mother-in-law.
The woman's sun is in conjunction with the mother-in-law's moon, and the woman's Venus is in trine with the father-in-law's sun. The birth of a child in a couple held together all of the above people on the cosmic level - the granddaughter was born under the same sun sign as the mother-in-law, who was once an opponent of the union. At the same time, the Moon of a newborn is in conjunction with the Moon of the father and in trine with the Moon of one grandfather, and Venus is in conjunction with the Sun of another grandfather.
This is how the will of heaven was accomplished for this family in all the glory of its immutable supremacy …
ASTROLOGIST'S ADVICE
If it seems to you that you have met your man, if you are going to marry him, then listen not only to your heart, but also to the whisper of the stars. Intuition is, of course, good, but under the influx of feelings, it can change you, but the cold-blooded star-planetary alignment will always be correct.
What should you do if you are going to get married? First, clarify your pedigree, the birth data of your ancestors - the more ancient the tribe you recognize, the better. Then go on a visit to the betrothed, make close friends with the grandparents, find out their dates of birth. And having collected all this information - go to the astrologer with a request to analyze the prospects of the race, while - virtual, and if the forecast is good - then real.
But it also happens that the forecast saddened, but you know for sure that you love your future husband with all your might and only want him to become a wife! How to be in this case? I advise you to postpone the stamp, live in a civil marriage and wait with the birth of children. Over the next three years, as a rule, you will be able to see if you have enough strength to change the plans of the Higher Forces for your life together. Such cases also exist, but they are rare and require much more dedication than other unions. And only time will tell if you can rewrite what was written in the book of fate …
* All story hero names have been changed
Astrologer Olga Fost