The modern etiquette of gift giving is based on centuries-old traditions and customs. They prescribe not only the rules for giving gifts, but also define clear and strict prohibitions. What things cannot be a present and why?
Knives
The tradition arose with the formation of a religious worldview and the formulation of the definition and main features of evil spirits. In almost all beliefs, it is attracted by sharp corners, pointed edges. For this reason, a knife is a symbol of the attraction of evil spirits. Such a gift can attract contention, quarrels, illness and other troubles associated with the presence of an evil spirit. Therefore, a knife as a gift is an absolute taboo.
Clock
Surprisingly, the prohibition to give watches is found in the unrelated cultures of the East and West. The ancient Chinese tradition interprets such a gift as an invitation to a funeral, while in Western culture the sharp hands of a clock are associated with the attraction of evil spirits.
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Umbrella
This prohibition arose during the Middle Ages, in which umbrellas came to Europe. The intricate mechanism with sharp edges also symbolized the attraction of impure forces. In addition, umbrellas were an extremely expensive accessory, and giving or accepting too expensive gifts by the standards of a decent society is bad manners, obliging the donee.
Belt
A custom that comes from the cultures of the Ancient East and Japanese traditional beliefs. Belt - an object symbolizing the action of shackling, tying. That is, the subconscious imposition of one's will and thoughts, hindering the freedom and success of the one to whom the gift is intended.
Gloves
This symbol came from the complex relationship between knights and ladies during the Middle Ages and the subsequent Renaissance. When, with the help of peculiar signs and gestures, it was possible to establish or break off relations. The donated gloves just symbolized the gap, separation. This image and symbol were so vivid that they became a tradition that has survived to this day.
Shawl
A handkerchief is a sad accessory. It is used in not the most pleasant moments of life - to wipe away tears or during an illness. Therefore, it is extremely undesirable to give such a present, so as not to incur suspicion of wishing sad moments to the gifted.
Cross
Everyone carries their own cross. Giving such a complex and ambiguous gift, a person seems to shift part of his burden, his fate, onto the one to whom he gives the gift. Is the giver so lucky and happy to make such a dangerous gift? Better not to confront yourself and others with such a difficult choice.
Why don’t donate
Choosing a gift, a person transfers a part of his soul, energy, messages intended specifically for the person to whom the gift is intended. There is such a sign in almost all cultures - from ancient Chinese and Hebrew, to medieval European and traditional for the countries of the Middle East.
