Outwardly, it seems that people are divided, that the consciousness of each person is independent and autonomous. But, if you look a little deeper, then consciousness is the top, below there is a subconscious, the boundaries of which are blurred. The subconscious of an individual merges into the collective subconscious and is the gateway for receiving and transmitting information in the general system. The image shows the veil of perception in green. The protrusions inside the veil are a person's perception of himself and other people as independent separate units, people-individuals. Outside the veil, the subconsciousness merges into the general system, everything is connected together, interacts with each other on the subtle plane, is a single whole.
A similar image is mushrooms. It seems that they grow separately and independently, only a few rise on the surface here and there, but underground, they are all united by a web-spider web - mycelium, and this network is included in the common forest system and interacts with it as a whole and with individual objects, such as insects or trees (redheads often grow under deciduous trees, forming a symbiotic relationship with the roots of trees - mycorrhiza), the space is being designed and populated.
Impact through the unconscious level
A person may feel that he has complete control over himself, his life and actions. That all incoming thoughts, desires, feelings, intentions belong to him and are controlled by him. In fact, many processes occurring with a person have an unconscious reason behind them, which is not registered by consciousness, but is simply accepted as a program for execution, while being perceived as "mine" or "I want it that way." Some impulse has arrived, a desire has appeared and a person begins to react in accordance with it, act, think something, without wondering where he came from and how adequate and positive are the consequences of the actions taken.
Influence can occur not only from other people, but also from systems, and changes in a person occur imperceptibly, even without any communication, sometimes just being on the territory of an egregor or attention in his direction is enough.
Partners "do not hear" each other, because are under the influence of different systems. Systems dictate to everyone their thoughts, behavior and image of the other.
Being under the wing of a paired egregor, people can include roles from which they relate well and understand each other.
The impact can be not only situational, but also much wider, for example, at the level of living the life scenarios of one of the relatives, adopting the feelings and thoughts of their ancestors, when a person, in fact, does not live his life, suffers, does not understand the reasons for what is happening, that can be done (and often does not think about the fact that something can be changed.
Unlike some fleeting influences aimed at performing certain actions, this kind of influence is much more difficult to notice, because a person has lived with it for many years, got used to it, often takes what is happening for granted, a person does not see the true reasons for what is happening, there is no material, understandable, tangible goal for the influencing object (as in the case of selling a product). This is often observed in constellations, one of the tasks of which was to remove negative systemic influences, to restore the normal flow of the energy of the clan, love.
A joyful person can "infect" everyone with his mood, and, previously a dull company, becomes energetic, cheerful, lively speaking. And it happens that after a conversation, even if there were no conflicts and everything happened in a socially acceptable framework, a person feels like a cesspool, bright thoughts have disappeared, strength has gone, apathy and irritation have appeared. One person simply passed on their negative state to another. In most cases, this is not registered by the consciousness of both parties, for "some reason" the state has changed, it became easier for one, and harder for the other. By learning to track the changes that are taking place, a person will be able to more harmoniously interact with people, avoid harmful meetings, remove unwanted influences, as well as more subtly understand the reasons for the behavior of others and help them come to a good state (for example, when a person sees,that aggressive behavior comes from an external obsession, then response aggression, as a rule, does not arise, it is replaced by sympathy and a desire to help).
Before the conversation.
During a conversation.
After the conversation.
How to get out of an obsessive state
Sometimes a person finds something harmful, he begins to wind himself up, get more and more excited (for example, on the basis of a small misdemeanor of a person, very long and far-reaching conclusions are made. Sometimes you can then wonder how you managed to draw such conclusions and build the whole chain of reasoning, how inadequate they are, although at the moment of winding it seemed that they were true), and in order not to break the wood, it is useful to get out of this state, calm down, ease tension and impulses to undesirable actions, and regain control over oneself. It can be aggression, an obsessive inappropriate idea that requires implementation, or some thoughts that are constantly and uselessly spinning, depleting energy. How can the situation be changed?
You can stand up and imagine that your state is standing in the place where you are in the form of a phantom, repeating the shape of the body, like a jumpsuit envelops it. Then you slowly take a step back and at this moment clearly imagine that you are leaving this enveloping state. This phantom remains in the same place, and you are already in a different position. The next task is to change the direction of thinking, to do something else, because for some time, there will probably still be occasional impulses to succumb to unwanted thoughts. If you fall for them, then you will go back into an undesirable state and gradually wind yourself up again. Usually, after leaving the "overalls" there is significant relief, clarity comes and control increases.
You can do it differently. For example, you take a napkin and imagine how energy, your unwanted role or thoughts pour into this napkin, you pull off the negative state from yourself and transfer it to the napkin. Then you throw away the napkin and for a while try not to fall into the previous state, not to succumb to fading impulses.
What's happening? During the exercise, a person's position of the assemblage point shifts, he dis-identifies with the previous state, becomes an observer. States control a person only when he is fully identified with them, it is worth taking a position of observation, as their influence is significantly weakened. In the same way, while you perceive impulses from egregor (and other influencing objects, for example, thoughts or emotions of people) as your own, you cannot protect yourself from them and cannot be controlled, but as soon as you realize what is happening, then a choice immediately appears and greater control is gained. …
