Under the word "weakness", one can perceive not only bad habits, but also negative character traits that prevent you from building full-fledged spheres of life and becoming an iron, strong-willed person who is faithful to his attitudes.
Moreover, the very attitude of men and women to the issue of changes and prodding towards satisfying weaknesses is at completely different poles.
The stronger sex is able to make efforts to eliminate them, but in the event of a failed experience, they will immediately turn on a defensive reaction in the form of adding such to the track record of personal merits: “What ?! Yes, I am like this!"
Withdrawal Syndrome
Prohibitions introduce a framework or reminder into people's existence. For example, an individual that, after many years of trying to lose weight, reaches its goal - very rarely returns to the usual stress relief with the help of your favorite hamburgers. Ah! Lesson learned!
Do you think he won't want them anymore? Of course it will! Here are just priorities and a jump in the level of self-esteem due to overcoming the addiction, will not allow weakness to take over logic.
The person will miss the "happy self." In other words, by not allowing himself to receive any more “drugs” that affect the pleasure zone in the brain, the individual triggers withdrawal syndrome.
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It is here that the sacred stage is hidden at the moment of engrafting useful habits or changes. Understanding the ultimate goal (specifically for yourself), it is much easier to survive the lack of a previously life-giving stimulant that maintained the status of "satisfied".
And yet, can indulgences leave the human mind once and for all, having played out their destiny? A huge number of temptations reminds of a promise made to oneself and at the same time, daily provokes individuals to develop contradictory doubts from the category: "Just once!"
Reflecting on today's topic of the article, I have prepared a list of the most popular individual weaknesses, which can make adjustments not only in character traits, but also in the subconscious.
Knowing the enemy by sight, it is much easier to build an iron defense. After all, understanding the mechanism of influence and your own reactions, it is much easier to keep to the goal and the chosen direction.
Uncontrollable fears
Instinctive or justified fear is a type of sensation that warns a person about the danger that can lead to death. At such a moment, reserves and food are activated, and the individual chooses between the position of attack or flight.
But there are fears that do not fall into the category of "logical". Rather, they are in the form of a contrived fiction based on a complex. Under the agitation of such a leadership, the individual begins to be afraid of everything: to speak in public, not to wake up, to drown in the bathroom, or even to commit suicide.
This is a manifestation of a person's weaknesses, which many may call panic attacks, anxiety or a state of prolonged depression. But you need to get rid of them as soon as possible, so as not to torment the mind with groundless doubts!
Envy and greed
I think that describing people's weaknesses is very similar to listing famous vices that have been colorfully described in books or films. Vices are negative spiritual qualities that can subconsciously control a person. That is why they are dangerous.
In the case of envy or greed, such words are self-sufficient to characterize themselves as negative. The manifestation of these feelings in life makes a person painfully vulnerable, and gives others an easy chance to take advantage of manipulation.
The manipulator is able to develop in a person a feeling of deep guilt or lack of confidence in personal strength, and then he will direct all the remaining time only to prove to himself that this is not so.
Try to approach food rationally. Think about what you want more? Live in order to eat or still eat in order to get energy for accomplishment?
A justification for laziness
I think laziness came to everyone's house. But her arrival does not only mean that you do not want to act. Rather, it is the result of a lack of motivation, desire and desire to exercise strength to take what is happening in conscious hands.
Having got rid of this weakness, you can feel a surge of power and strength for the full realization of yourself in the proposed data. And justifying "aunt-laziness" by inappropriate circumstances or a failed attempt to shift the blame onto another, you can only waste precious time.
Indifference
Indifference is the scourge of modern society. In general, people absolutely do not care what happens beyond the threshold of their "I" and more often than not, this zone ends at the front door.
This weakness borders on cowardice and brings with it a gradual fading of interest in everything living, not living and happening in the world. Complete detachment, lack of compassion, the desire to do good, to intervene in injustice - all this risks sinking into oblivion if you do not make efforts on yourself.
Indifference can be called an awkward attitude that it is impossible to change the current state of affairs. But deep down, you know it's not true, right?
Lies and utter flattery
I am surprised at how many earthlings are greedy for flattery. They succumb to provocations, and, hanging their ears, are ready to do anything, even agree with a lie!
Thus, a person tries to raise himself above the earth, and over time he forgets that reality is real. Moreover, liars rarely remember what they say, and indulging in such a habit, you can soon get confused in the testimony and pass the name of a dubious person.
Dependencies
By acquiring addictions, people begin to work to please them. But if cigarettes and alcohol possess you, what do you possess? The decision to change your world and habitual thoughts leads to the fact that the process of getting rid of pests is over.
But weakness in the context of a return to past "fun" is dangerous by teleportation to the original point of suffering from cancellation. Betrayal of oneself is the most unpleasant sensation after "one cigarette" or "just one glass".
On this you need to put three points …
Author: Elena Rouvier
