The fate of a person is not a mystical, but a controlled phenomenon. In fact, a person to a greater extent (by 80-90%) influences what kind of life he will live and is already living. But since a person often does not control his emotions, words, thoughts, actions, then his future is formed unpredictably. Only in an unconscious state does a person receive what he, perhaps, did not want to receive. And in a conscious "mode", which is unusual and difficult for any modern person, exactly the life he dreams of is achieved.
How is destiny formed? Consider the sequence.
Thought gives rise to action …
It all starts with a thought. As they say, a person gets what he really thinks about. And so it is. Thought triggers the mechanism of the formation of an event. First, a person thinks about something. And here it no longer matters whether a person thinks about good or bad. If a person thinks about his fears, then he gets what he is afraid of. If a person thinks about buying bread, then he buys it. Everything arises in the head, and from there proceeds to action.
Action creates a habit …
When certain actions are performed constantly, they turn into familiar algorithms. People call them habits. However, a habit is not just about smoking cigarettes or drinking alcohol. This word refers to the performance of the same actions in a certain situation. For example, when communicating with your mom, you always start to get nervous and go on to scream. And when you wake up in the morning, you perform the usual ritual of actions: wash your face, brush your teeth, get dressed, have a cup of coffee or tea.
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In almost any situation, a person develops habits. If these situations are constant, then you definitely have habits of how to behave in them. If the situations are new, you never get into them, only here you have no habits. Remember your feelings: "I don't know what to do." But you still start doing something, and then you repeat these actions again, and again, and again, due to which the usual algorithm of actions in the same situation is soon formed.
A human is like a robot that just needs to be programmed. Habits are programs that you play automatically without even paying attention to them. But it is through actions that you contact with the outside world.
Habit forms character …
The actions you are accustomed to will affect the character you will have. Contacting the world and other people, performing certain actions in a relationship, you should have a certain emotional background. Character is, one might say, an emotional background that accompanies you in a given situation. Frequent mood swings are a quick change and a striking difference in the emotional background, since a person finds himself in different situations. If there are no mood swings, this suggests that you have developed the same emotional background for different situations.
What is emotional background? These are your usual emotions that you experience in a particular situation. And they are already those qualities of character that you possess.
Character shapes destiny …
Combined, actions and character shape your destiny. You pour out your feelings and actions into the outside world. Other people see your mood and actions, which means that they also reproduce their usual emotional backgrounds and algorithms for actions in such situations. Interaction with other people and the world in general gives you what you can get by performing certain actions, demonstrating certain emotions, that is, showing one or another character that comes into contact with the actions and characters (emotions) of other people and laws the world. All this "explosive" mixture gives you what you call destiny.
Kupreykina Yulia Vasilievna