Where do these lonely mothers and divorced women come from? What makes them so? How does a woman turn from a wife into a divorced lady?
Single mothers with a child are the main form of the modern matriarchal Russian family. At the same time, this is the talk of the town of all government authorities and hundreds of non-profit organizations. They all fight like fish on ice in order to make life easier for unfortunate divorced women and single mothers. What our rulers do not come up with. And the alimony fund, and 180% per annum on the alimony debt, and multimillion-dollar arrears with the father's salary of 15 thousand rubles. And the arrest of property, and criminal prosecution. I would not be surprised if soon the fathers, expelled from their families, will be transferred to the private property of a divorcee with the right to sell on the slave market.
However, this is not the main topic of the article. Legislative discrimination against men was analyzed article by article by me in the chapter of the same name in the book "Fake Man". In general, in the future in this article, I will act as follows. Since the topic pulls along many other topics, I will try not to clutter up the article with additional material. Therefore, I will describe some things briefly and give a link to sources where these things are described in more detail.
The purpose of this article is to determine where these lonely mothers and divorces come from. What makes them so? How does a woman change from a wife to a divorced woman?
The generally accepted version of the appearance of divorced women and single mothers is as follows. "Goat men" abandon unfortunate women because of their own irresponsibility. They run away, so to speak, having done the job. From all the holes one can hear the praises of "the best Russian women in the world" and curses at the "bastard Russian men". As if men and women are not boiling in the same (de) cultural cauldron.
These songs are sung by ordinary feminists with their usual hatred of both men and family women. These songs are sung by pseudo-patriarchal women, but in fact, all the same feminists who successfully profess women's freedom, taken from feminism, and the patriarchal duty of a husband to support a woman. Much has been written about such ladies in the book "Fake Man" (chapter "Post-Industrial Period"). Therefore, we will also reduce.
And how really?
First, remember that according to statistics, 80% of divorces occur at the initiative of women. It is a fact. Another fact is that during a divorce, a man is almost guaranteed (in 95-97% of cases) to lose children, property and is obliged to pay alimony, the expenditure of which he does not even have the right to control.
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1. The main provider of single mothers and divorced women is the matriarchal education of girls and women. Growing up, a woman is actually not. That is, her genitals are female, and everything else, including the psyche and behavior, is neither female nor male. A matriarchal family is one where there is either no father at all, or one where he is formally present, but the aggressive, dominant alpha baba is in charge of everyone, and the man combines the role of a wordless supplier, a whipping pear and a bedside rug. In such a family, the girl gets used to female aggressive domination over men, and treats the latter with contempt. How else should she relate to them, if all childhood before her eyes, as a pattern of male behavior, there was a pitiful, downtrodden henpecked man?
And so this girl begins to look for a husband for herself. She does not tolerate men who are self-confident, strong in spirit of VRNP, because she is used to dominating and manipulating, and a man's VGP does not allow her. She, of course, weeds them out (see the chapter "I am a woman. Looking for a weakling" in the book "Anatomy of Love and Fakes"). She is purposefully looking for an obedient, comfortable little man, on whose neck you can comfortably sit. That is, a man brought up matriarchal. A woman can easily find this - they are now the overwhelming majority. But since the female sexual instinct does not perceive this rag as a man, a male, then a woman does not feel any love, sincere affection for him. She initially perceives him as a cash cow and a sperm donor. Of course, she will strive to get rid of this ballast as soon as possible. As soon as he fertilizes her,provides her with a calm and well-fed gestation, she divorces him. She no longer needs him. He fulfilled the function of a sperm donor, and the function of a sponsor will be forced to continue to perform the state machine of coercion. That is, the court and bailiffs. And in the foreseeable future - and the alimony fund. Why does she need a husband, if you can live absolutely freely, do not report to anyone, walk, promiscuate, and your child will be supported by the state? You can even shove this child off to grandparents, so as not to interfere with swagger. And to spend alimony on yourself.if you can live absolutely freely, not to report to anyone, walk, promiscuate, and your child will be supported by the state? You can even shove this child off to grandparents, so as not to interfere with swagger. And to spend alimony on yourself.if you can live absolutely freely, not to report to anyone, walk, promiscuate, and your child will be supported by the state? You can even shove this child off to grandparents, so as not to interfere with swagger. And to spend alimony on yourself.
As a result, as we can see, we get the same matriarchal family. Dominant aunt + child. This template has been replicated from generation to generation. It reproduces itself.
2. Modification of the first point in the form of the initial attitude towards marriage swindle. A woman chooses not an ordinary obedient peasant, but a wealthy man, from whom you can chop off good housing and a decent amount of alimony. I know the ladies who support the child, and themselves, and the new hakhal-gigolo for alimony. Read more in the chapter "Discrimination against men in family law" in the book "Not a real man". There, this topic is chewed up to an amoebic consistency.
3. Modification of the first point, when the matriarchal aunt has no strong desire to divorce. It is convenient for her to live with a downtrodden peasant, who both maintains and serves her, and even performs the function of a punching bag. At the same time, a woman experiences a constant feeling of rejection of her husband, annoyance and anger at him. This is easy to explain. A weak-willed, non-initiative mumbler cannot evoke any positive emotions, except perhaps pity. But this emotion is unfamiliar to the matriarchal aggressive aunt. And the sexual instinct, as I already wrote, languishes, not wanting to accept this little man as a full-fledged man. What's happening? A woman in the family immediately after the wedding begins to behave in the same way as it has been imprinted on her since infancy: to dominate aggressively. She creates a scandalous, stifling atmosphere of constant psychological abuse in the house. Every hour, every day, year after year, she rips off her frustration, anger, hatred on her husband. According to scientific research, 70% of all unilateral cases of psychological violence in families come from women.
However, in such families, a woman often uses physical violence against a man.
And one day a peasant gets tired of living with a shrew. The reasons are different. He may suddenly find a woman in the promotional phase who, in contrast to the dominant bitch wife, seems almost an angel of heaven. He can read Biryukov's materials and see his plight. A critical mass of anger can simply simply accumulate - as they say, “the spring has jumped back”. The man leaves the bitch.
4. Two more points of supply of divorced women are associated with the female sexual instinct. In short, he is geared up to find two men: the VVP to conceive and the IUV to maintain the woman and child. Therefore, a woman who lives by a sexual instinct will look for a violent, highly primative dork for mating, and for an intelligent, weak-tempered man who is easy to manipulate for maintenance. For those who want more details and with justifications, I refer everything to the same book "Fake Man", chapter "Sexual Instinct". At this point, we will consider the first part - the woman and the alpha.
The sexual instinct of a woman, like a hundred thousand years ago, chooses a highly primative man, alpha, VDPV, as an ideal father for children. This is a violent, conflicting type, which is ruled by low egoistic instincts, and not reason, intellect, education. If a hundred thousand years ago he could have become a leader, now he is more likely a hooligan, a chronic unemployed, a frequenter of pubs and places of imprisonment. But the female sexual instinct is not aware of this, he still needs a violent, highly primative monkey, like a million years ago. The instinctive woman, obeying instinct, melts in the clutches of this uncle. The result is a child - difficult, with a bad heredity. A woman expects tender fatherly feelings and eternal love from the alpha. But the alpha sneezed at her and her cub. Just becausethat his sexual instinct demands to impregnate as many women as possible. And he does not know how to control his instincts with his mind. As a result, after a short period of somersaults, the alpha finds himself another. Or even walks, no matter what. He has a lot of women (as well as illegitimate children), and he is not going to shut himself off from the joys of life and become a monogamous person. Add to this the craving for alcohol, drugs, antisocial behavior. Alfach naturally disappears, and the loving lady is left alone with a dysfunctional child in her arms. If there was no marriage, the result is a single mother. If there was, then a divorced lady with a child. As an option, a woman herself leaves such a man when he begins to brawl and fight at home, drink in a black way, that is, behave as he is supposed to be primative. And he does not know how to control his instincts with his mind. As a result, after a short period of somersaults, the alpha finds himself another. Or even walks, no matter what. He has a lot of women (as well as illegitimate children), and he is not going to shut himself off from the joys of life and become a monogamous person. Add to this the craving for alcohol, drugs, antisocial behavior. Alfach naturally disappears, and the loving lady is left alone with a dysfunctional child in her arms. If there was no marriage, the result is a single mother. If there was, then a divorced lady with a child. As an option, a woman herself leaves such a man when he begins to brawl and fight at home, drink in a black way, that is, behave as he is supposed to be primative. And he does not know how to control his instincts with his mind. As a result, after a short period of somersaults, the alpha finds himself another. Or even walks, no matter what. He has a lot of women (as well as illegitimate children), and he is not going to shut himself off from the joys of life and become a monogamous person. Add to this the craving for alcohol, drugs, antisocial behavior. Alfach naturally disappears, and the loving lady is left alone with a dysfunctional child in her arms. If there was no marriage, the result is a single mother. If there was, then a divorced lady with a child. As an option, a woman herself leaves such a man when he begins to brawl and fight at home, drink in a black way, that is, behave as he is supposed to be primative. He has a lot of women (as well as illegitimate children), and he is not going to shut himself off from the joys of life and become a monogamous person. Add to this the craving for alcohol, drugs, antisocial behavior. Alfach naturally disappears, and the loving lady is left alone with a dysfunctional child in her arms. If there was no marriage, the result is a single mother. If there was, then a divorced lady with a child. As an option, a woman herself leaves such a man when he begins to brawl and fight at home, drink in a black way, that is, behave as he is supposed to be primative. He has a lot of women (as well as illegitimate children), and he is not going to shut himself off from the joys of life and become a monogamous person. Add to this the craving for alcohol, drugs, antisocial behavior. Alfach naturally disappears, and the loving lady is left alone with a dysfunctional child in her arms. If there was no marriage, the result is a single mother. If there was, then a divorced lady with a child. As an option, a woman herself leaves such a man when he begins to brawl and fight at home, drink in a black way, that is, behave as he is supposed to be primative. If there was no marriage, the result is a single mother. If there was, then a divorced lady with a child. As an option, a woman herself leaves such a man when he begins to brawl and fight at home, drink in a black way, that is, behave as he is supposed to be primative. If there was no marriage, the result is a single mother. If there was, then a divorced lady with a child. As an option, a woman herself leaves such a man when he begins to brawl and fight at home, drink in a black way, that is, behave as he is supposed to be primative.
Who's guilty? A woman and no one else. If she is so stupid that she chooses a partner not mentally, but in a different place, then who is her doctor?
That is why, in balanced societies, the choice of a potential spouse was carried out by the parents and very rarely entrusted this task to the young people themselves. Parents choose by reason, based on the criteria of suitability for a strong family. At the same time, the young are mostly guided by the sexual instinct, which in the Lower Paleolithic version does not correspond to the era of civilization.
5. This option can be either a continuation of the previous paragraph, or an independent option.
When a highly primative alpha leaves a woman with a child, she begins to look for the complete opposite of her former partner. As a result, he finds a low-ranking man who at first looks either as a downtrodden, soft-hearted intellectual, or as a chronic loser who is “sorry”. By "pity" is meant the expectation that a person will be indebted to the grave of his life to the one who "pity" him. That is, the usual manipulation of a sense of duty and guilt. The woman believes that this man, quiet and tucked up, simply will not find the courage to leave. She conceives another child from him - the women themselves call it "to seal the marriage with a child", "to bind him with a child."
But "suddenly" it turns out that this "downtrodden intellectual" and "sweet loser" is not just downtrodden and unlucky. He is a low-ranking man. This means that he is devoid of not only ambition and determination. He - what is most important in our situation - is also deprived of responsibility, and besides, for a long time being under the pressure of more "ranked", he learned to lie perfectly, twist himself, play around, press on pity, pretending to be sulky and wretched. It is in no small measure beneficial for him to be an outsider - there is no demand from an outsider, everyone feels sorry for him.
Responsibility for your team, for your woman and offspring is a trait of a leader, that is, a high-ranking man. This also includes the ability to keep the word, as well as the concept of "honor". All this is not peculiar to low-ranking ones. They are content with momentary comfort, after which they quickly dump when there is even the slightest danger of being held responsible for their actions. And they do this regardless of the quality of the woman. I know of cases when good girls from patriarchal families found themselves such chronic losers who "felt sorry for". And they skidded as soon as they found out about the pregnancy of the wife. They had a break to pull on themselves a pregnant wife and child, or even several. Lafa is over - that's it, it's time to make legs. And despite the fact that women were in the mood for a full-fledged family, they knew how to create coziness and psychological comfort at home,loved her husband and wanted to be with him.
This is another reason why, in a balanced society, the choice of bride and groom is made by the parents. They will not act if the loser pressures pity. What will ride with a young maiden, will not ride with this maiden's wise father.
But then again - if parents were eliminated as experts, then who, except for the stupidest woman, is to blame for the fact that she is not looking for a high-ranking, responsible man, but a miserable, irresponsible loser? After all, it is not so difficult to distinguish one from the other.
6. A combination of the first and fifth points. A woman initially rejects high-ranking, self-confident men and looks for a low-ranking one. How and why this happens is described in detail in the book "Anatomy of Love and Fakes", chapter "I am a woman. Looking for a weakling "and" Why do women prefer "bad guys?" And briefly it sounds like this: her matriarchal upbringing is looking for a man who would be worse than her, against whose background she would look better than she is. Man background. An analogy is how ugly women are looking for a girlfriend even worse.
A woman finds a low-ranking man for self-affirmation, and he, instead of pleasing the mistress with his enthusiastic exclamations, deftly winds up, as described in the previous paragraph.
7. Another fairly common reason for the appearance of single mothers is the tendency to “give birth for yourself”. A woman understands that because of her aggressive, quarrelsome nature, inability to conduct life or inability to remain faithful, she cannot find a permanent man, a spouse for herself. In order not to vegetate alone, in an empty apartment, you can have a cat, you can have three, or you can have a child. In fact, this is the formation of the same matriarchal family, where a dominant, aggressive mother cripples a child, whom she brought as a substitute for a cat. For a more detailed study "for sebyarozhalok" I recommend the articles by Dmitry Seleznev "I give birth to myself as a moral crime" and "Babya's pit".
8. Well, and the last reason - "flying" in order to take a man "on the belly" and forcefully marry yourself. All the same intent, a variant of fraud. A cheated man is likely to lose confidence in a woman and leave. She stays with a child that she no longer needs (the blackmail did not work out!), And all that remains for her is to collect alimony. The situation slowly flows into point 2.
We see that all the reasons for the appearance of divorced women with children and single mothers can be divided into two groups. In the first - when a woman herself expels a man from the family, filing for divorce or arranging at home a long-term front of psychological (and often physical) violence. These are points 1, 2, 3 and conditionally 7. In the second - when a woman finds herself a man who was initially unsuitable for a strong family. Items 4, 5 and 6.
Thus, there are two reasons for the appearance of divorces with children and single mothers: either the woman's malicious intent, or her irresponsible attitude towards the choice of a spouse.
We can say that in the second group of cases the man is to blame, since he leaves the woman. This, of course, is true: his fault is, no one takes it off a man. But let's not give in to emotions. After all, the woman herself, of her own free will, chose him. She deliberately discarded normal, responsible, high-ranking men, preferring them a weakling. And most importantly - after all, only a woman and no one else makes the decision about conceiving and having a child. If there was no rape (which is not the topic here), then the reproductive choice entirely lies with the woman. She herself, of her own free will, chooses unprotected sex. She has the ability to take completely safe modern oral contraceptives. She has every right to refuse sex without a condom. But she does not do this - and this absolutely definitely speaks of the woman's desire to become pregnant from this person. I'm not even talking about situations when a woman pierces a condom, lies about being protected, fertilizes herself artificially (from a condom or receiving semen through oral sex). And even more so - about situations when a woman becomes pregnant from another (false paternity).
Therefore, there is no fault of men in the fact that a woman chooses for herself and deliberately becomes pregnant from a partner that was initially unsuitable for the family.
Alexander Biryukov
