There are many mystical cases that people tell about. For example, a girl dreamed that her aunt in a dream complained about her eyes, explained something, talked about a wardrobe in the corridor. The girl decided that the dead were dreaming about a change in the weather, she read about this in one dream book. And a friend confirmed. And two days later, the niece decided to put the winter clothes in her aunt's closet, which was empty. She opens the door, and her aunt's favorite dark glasses, which she brought from Germany, fall from the shelf. According to her niece, she felt creepy. But she coped with the excitement. The next day, the girl took her glasses to her aunt's grave.
Knowledgeable people say that you go to the cemetery, grab any little thing from your home that is left from another person who has gone into the world. You need to look carefully in boxes, cabinets. The look will stop in an inscrutable way on this thing.
Another case. The widow tells that she had a strange dream. She came to the cemetery, but she could not find her husband's grave. What? The state is alarming, but suddenly, to what trouble. I told my son. He, in order to calm his mother, did not postpone the trip until parental day, and immediately went to the cemetery. And a strange story happens to them, like in a dream. They know perfectly well where the grave is, but they cannot find it. Circled around and around for a long time. Then they turned to a woman who was cleaning up nearby garbage. She sighed, crossed herself and utters a strange phrase:
“Were you also called? You will find it. Where to get away from here?"
As the son and mother said, they were standing next to each other, only on the other side of the cross. We looked at the plate, and the inscription was completely washed away by the rains. We urgently went to the city, bought paint, on the same day everything was corrected.
And another story of a resident of the regional center. She had a dream in which her other relative who had gone into the world began to come in her dreams and complain about something. The woman didn't understand. I came to the cemetery, it turned out that the grave was washed away. The workers accepted the order for repairs, brought the land, did everything as it should be.
When the church funeral rite is performed, one can see that the priest approaches such people and gently says that it is not necessary to hold back the soul of the deceased, it must follow the path that is determined for her. And relatives should not cling, pull the soul back to the ground. This is the egoism of living people who do not think about the soul of the deceased.
They say that the one to whom the relative is going to go to the grave knows about it in advance. And, supposedly in a subtle body, souls stand at the fence and wait. A person goes to a specific deceased - clean up, study, do not go around the cemetery, assessing who has what fences and monuments. Silence is needed. Therefore, they install a bench, a table. It is impermissible to take anything home from the cemetery, not to mention someone else's inventory, gloves for work, flowers, objects.
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It is often undesirable to go to the cemetery. So people who know think. One should not assume that it is good if someone is at the grave for a long time. On any visit, you need to take plain water with you to water the earth, rinse your hands.