What prevents modern men and women from being happy? Especially happy together? I will answer you - WAR. The war between a man and a woman, which began long ago - when the Goddess left this world, retired to her cradle, leaving her smile in the souls of women.
So, in any case, the myths say. And soon, when the Darkness crawled into the souls of people - I do not know who or what opened the gates to human souls - the War began.
The greatest and most destructive, which has been going on for more than one millennium, but every year it takes away millions of souls. This war is not obvious, it is rooted in our habits, everyday customs so that it became invisible. And that is why she is terrible.
And now - people cannot meet, recognize each other, there are only a few happy families … - is it worth continuing this nightmare list?
So why, you ask?
HOW DO I STOP THE WAR BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN?
I do not know how to stop this all over the earth, but I believe that it is possible to do it in every family, if, thanks to the spiritual effort of companions united in a family, one small miracle happens - CONSCIOUSNESS.
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To do this, one must understand that everyone, yes, everyone, regardless of desire, is involved in this war. How?
Through charm - "attached attention". It is no coincidence that the words "charm", "enchantment" had a negative connotation in the popular perception.
Charm is created in several ways.
First, the substitution of values - there has been a "fashion for bodies" for more than one century - every century, with a change in cultural philosophy, the so-called standard of beauty changes, and it is no secret that with every century it is farther from natural representations.
If even 2 centuries ago a beautiful woman was considered a figure, moral, moral foundations that make her a potentially good mother, now the standard of a beautiful woman is a reptile like creature with no behavioral, moral ideas about motherhood and family life.
Secondly, the creation of myths that create a person's attachment to goals and concerns at the level of only the physical body, without care and attention to the Soul and Spirit. These myths, in fact, are not pitting opposites, but equally important parts, leading them to death.
We will try to list these myths.
MYTHS IN RELATIONSHIP
1. The myth of equality
In times that are considered "wild" in modern philosophy and history, even during the formation of world religions, among completely different cultures there was a concept of "the task of a man" and "the task of a woman", which were not opposed anywhere - neither in China nor in Egypt - but they were different.
Only after the emergence of Islam and Christianity did the idea of "inferiority", "sinfulness" of a woman in relation to a man emerge. The development of this myth according to the principle of a pendulum led to the emergence of such a modern disease as feminism, which is now parasitizing on the body of society.
As a result, this led to the fact that the man and woman changed places, that is, they do not fulfill their divine destiny - the man is no longer Ost, Kol is no longer a vector, a direction, and a woman is Kol, a bowl.
And as a result, stake and stake no longer form a unity - Bells! No Soul Sounding Together! This means there is no Peace!
2. The myth about "the peculiarities of the male body, which cannot live without sex"
This myth was created during the fall of the Roman Empire, when orgies became a common pastime for the nobility. As a result - almost 90% of modern relationships begin in bed - a test of sexual compatibility becomes a test for family relationships. Bed is the way to keep your partner together!
“First we'll sleep, then we'll create a family” - the art is not about “sleeping”! And even the "open" law of telegony, or rather the scientifically proven ancient Slavic law of Rita, did not just sink into oblivion - it was skillfully cut off - in modern more or less "enlightened" society there is an opinion that only women are subject to the effect of telegony!
And this is war again! Because it is not - and any livestock breeder will tell you!
3. The myth about "the peculiarities of the human soul - male, female, etc."
This myth is supported by such illusions:
1) "Men do not cry" (like, strength is restraint) - the result is that men are closed, the cult is a tough, aggressive, arrogant dork.
2) “Girls should not fight” - the result - women consider the moral and physical bullying of men to be the norm and do not know how and do not want to defend themselves, taking the position of “slave” for a normal female role.
3) "A man beats, it means he loves" ("pulls the pigtails - means you like it"), etc.
The result of this myth is that people are not natural, closed, afraid, do not know how and are embarrassed to show their feelings or do it in ugly ways. Hence the desire to "like it, showing itself from the best side."
Not yourself, but the better side - not all of yourself! And this is a DECEPTION !!! And they show mostly the body, not the soul!
4. The myth of the transience of the possibility of receiving divine good
I must say that the good is mainly in the representation of material wealth. This can be well shown through the common phrase: "A modern woman must provide for herself - first career, fame, then family."
Modern men also have the opinion that first material wealth, and then the family. Both those and others forget that the development of material wealth is possible only when there is a goal.
After all, money is not a piece of paper, it is just energy. And energy, as you know, comes only where there is an opportunity for development, where "the circuit is capable of opening and increasing" (physics).
That is, when there is a goal - the answer to the question: "Why do you need this?" - and the answer to it cannot be simply: “I want” - this is not a goal. And this in Russia was very well explained by two concepts-images: Koschey and Bogatyr.
A small excursion into history.
The opposite concept in fairy tales is reflected in the image of Koshchei, and not by chance.
The word "Koschey" comes from the word "koschey" - bone, ossified and etymologically associated with such a concept as "koschna" - a robber's sack, where everything falls indiscriminately (and you understand the consequences of this) and "treasury" - wealth without development.
Death for the Slavs is a lack of development. Therefore, the one who simply “wants”, but does not know why, will never be rich spiritually and materially - is not a hero - Koschey in essence. And this is what modernity calls for through: an arms race, a race of values ("who has a cooler car", "who has more money") - a race of bodies, treasury. And in this race, people forget about souls and families.
What does the family have to do with it? I explain that the main goal of man is the embodiment on earth of the task that the spirit has set for itself. Everything on earth creates in conjunction with others - from stones to animals and plants.
And only modern man tries to resist this. A seed cannot germinate without agreement with the earth, insects, water, sky, worms, etc. therefore, a person can realize his task only in community - in the FAMILY.
It is no coincidence that the saying has survived to this day: "God gave a child - he will give everything for a child." A child in a family is born only with the consent of the parents - that is, if they have a common goal and they know how to come to an agreement.
A child is an indicator of the goodness of the goal of the parents. This means both the number of children and the wealth of the family - it all depends on who the parents are - Bogatyrs or Koschei - what is their goal.
5. The myth of the hierarchy, the pyramid of everything - from the biological chain to the structures of society
This myth is based on the theory that someone can be lower and someone higher, which means closer to God, which means that they have the right to be called "the chosen one."
On the basis of this, the theory of slavery, castes, "the working class and the intelligentsia", the relationship "boss and subordinate" was created, and the worst thing is that a family is created - "older means smarter", "eggs do not teach a chicken", "a woman should be at home sit and be silent when a man speaks,”and so on. - common "phrases", which are ways to start a conflict, to push two sides, without the interaction and harmony of which the whole world will collapse.
So any, in fact, structure, built on the principle of hierarchy, which means the oppression of one by another, is just a way to create slavery, where there are slaves - those who have, and slave owners - those who have others.
All this is the so-called "pyramid principle". This has never happened in Russia and in other countries in the Golden Age of peoples' development!
Remember how the most ancient symbol depicted the Sun - the face of God, all peoples - the Circle! What is the Earth? Also a Circle (only with a seven-point)!
Therefore, in Russia there was Veche - a circle of wise men, elders of the clans; there was the concept of hurray - a circle of his land, which a man had to defend; temple - a circle, cities - a circle, etc.
Therefore, in nature, everything tends to a circle - an anthill, a crown of a tree, a planet, a circle of death and birth, and a biological food chain, etc.
Therefore, the family is a circle: a child-parent-strict - and then, through death, the child again comes into the clan in his descendant. Therefore, varnas (castes) are a circle! And a true mentally purposeful enterprise - artel - circle! Etc.
6. The myth that personal changes are unnecessary
In the modern world there has long been an opinion, which is all expressed in one phrase: "He (she) must change, and accept me as I am."
At first glance, everything is fine, but this is only at first glance. In fact, thanks to this, people get the opportunity to justify their laziness and not do anything, not change in their lives and not change themselves.
As a result, this leads to the fact that people meet only companions - "mirrors", that is, with the same problems and "cockroaches" in their heads. And when building a family, this led to the fact that families appeared where people only "mirrors" each other!
As a result, in the modern world this has led to the fact that now there is not one "type" of family, but three: a mirror family, a peace family, and only the third true "type" is a companion family.
A mirror family is just a family in which people are drawn only on the basis of common pain. And they, as in a mirror in their companion, see their own pain - flaws, unresolved situations, aggression, etc.
For example, she perceives the advice of her parents as a restriction of freedom and he, too, met, without understanding deeper, got married. Relationships in such a family are based on the principle: “I don’t notice a log in my own eye - I’ll see a speck in another”.
That is, any quarrels, scandals look the same: “everyone thinks the other is a freak, despite the fact that he is a freak” (L. Filatov) - your “pranks” of each other are like a nuclear war with a hundred percent hitting the target - there is only one pain!
You stick another there, which is 100% of the person himself - it may be expressed through different actions, but there is! Therefore, wars in such families are a terrible thing. But this family also has its own plus: in another, as in the mirror you can see yourself.
And to do this, remember: “like is attracted to like” - that is, look at what annoys you, makes you angry, makes you nervous in a companion (not only in your spouse, but in any life partner) - these qualities are 100% in you. Therefore, do not seek to change a person. And it’s impossible. Change yourself.
Peaceful family - a family where companions have come together in common interests "for now". These are people who are friends. They don't think about the future. They are brought together by explicit goals. For example, he is fond of metaphysics and she too - they took, got married.
This is not bad, but very often then it turns out that both - yes, dreamed of a house, but one - about a brick house and in the city, and the second - about a wooden one and in the village. And it is not always possible to build something in common. And already, as a rule, by the time of the "discovery" that the goals are different, there are already children.
And a family where people are companions to each other is the only present - they have a common fairy tale - dreams of the future. And this unites them forever, even if they are with different hobbies, money status, appearance - a clear world. For they are united by Rule - common aspirations.
Therefore, in the end, in the modern world, all Cinderellas dream of princes, but without developing, they never meet them; the one who “grows” to a princess without development remains so at the age of 40 and 50, next to the same naive 50-year-old prince - without development they never become Kings and Queens.
7. The myth of body contact
Modern people understand by touch, basically, two types: medical (examine, touch - make a verdict) and "sexual" or as they are also called "intimate". Some even think that: "There are only intimate touches."
And almost everyone falls into the trap of these judgments. If in a friendly relationship this is all just a confirmation of this philosophy, then in a family it becomes one of the ways to destroy relationships: married couples either touch each other and look for flaws, finding fault with each other's figure or body condition, playing the "evil doctor", or lasciviously "pawing" each other.
In the first case, there is such a concentration on the body, which leads to the formation of complexes, self-flagellation, and therefore constriction, constraint of oneself and the other - and this is a betrayal of the vessel of God, which is the body. And in view of the habit, the persecution of each other intensifies every year, but nothing changes.
In the second case, this has led to the fact that modern people know how to have sex (from the word "sekti" - circumcision - lat.), Sexual relations (sex is what dirt collects on), but they do not know how to give joy to each other, strength, to admire each other as gods, which means that creativity at the call of the child turns into a purely mechanical act, where parents do not hear and do not feel the moment of the coming of God!
8. The management myth
In the modern world, it is represented by the judgment: "Trust, but check, and better manage." The result is the improvement in the modern world of management methods - deception, which once led to the separation and opposition of languages, peoples, etc.
And at the heart of this is the difference INTELLIGENCE (popular term) - some kind of internal translator, which is part of the mind (mind-mind - once the mind is given, a template). It, interpretatively, leads to the fact that even in one language different people mean different things under the same words on the first reflex.
For example, the word pen - one sees the child's pen inside the consciousness, the other - a ballpoint.
As a result, a race of images arises - the one who quickly creates such a combination of images that implies his own point of view wins, which at the same time will not cause protest from the listener, creating a substitution of images, but will lead, as a result of interaction, to a beneficial result for the speaker. And this is management.
9. The myth about "righteous" lies or the game
In the modern world, as a result of the above reasons, a person gets used to living in a closed manner, hiding, instead of the face of the soul, "slipping" various "sides" to each other - masks, learned roles. Playing this theater of deception, a person gradually ceases to distinguish where he is real, where is his mask - the mask grows.
And as a result, a person does not know his soul, does not see it, does not feel - he himself becomes a mask, harey - undead, as they called it among the people. And the worst thing is that the undead will always find beautiful words to justify their lies.
And thirdly, the charm is created by the involvement of a person in the struggle of forces, where the situation of "choice without choice", that is, a person with his emotions is involved in the creation and support of field-force structures, otherwise called egregors or pendulums.
And this is the worst thing, because by supporting the life of the “pendulum” with our assessments, we continue the existing situation without changing it.
Imagine a man who sees a woman passing by him in defiantly revealing clothes, and he curses her for what the light is on, and at the same time the fashion that exposes women. They are not adherents of the pendulum of fashion, it does not follow it for a variety of reasons.
However, what is happening? The man scolds fashion, thinks: "God forbid, my daughter will go out into the street in this form."
Thus, he intensely radiates mental energy at the frequency of this pendulum. Indeed, the pendulum does not care which side you swing it from.
For a pendulum, both positive and negative energies are suitable. The main thing is that the radiation frequency is resonant.
Because the main task of the pendulum is to hook, to touch a human being, no matter how, as long as the person's thoughts are occupied by the pendulum.
One of the favorite ways for the pendulum to access your energy is to throw you off balance. Having deviated from equilibrium, you begin to "swing" at the frequency of the pendulum and thereby swing it.
Let's say a neighbor does not share your faith, and even more - is a representative of the opposite confession. Hearing his opinion about your religious beliefs, you react negatively - you start to get indignant, complain, exchange information with friends. Quite normal and adequate reaction. But this is exactly what the pendulum expects.
You radiate negative energy into the world around you at the frequency of a pendulum, it receives energy and sways even more - the situation is getting worse: for example, there are more such neighbors or you have a boss, a boss at work who actively hates adherents of "any religious sects" …
Therefore, if you even just pay attention to men, women - and give them an assessment, compare - this is how you feed any program. Physicist and modern author Zeland tells about this in detail in his book "Reality Transurfing".
Remember the first example: a girl "naked" - "bad", modestly dressed - "good" - giving such an assessment we do not reduce the number of "bad" and do not increase the number of "good" - and then, and then will grow, as we support swing of this pendulum.
Fighting with any force, we do not reduce the number of "bad" ones. Exit, you ask?
Let me remind you of a shot from the movie about Merlin: “You can't kill me,” says Morgana. “And I'm not going to. We'll just forget you,”Merlin replies.
The best way to disconnect from the pendulum is to stop responding to it.
Therefore, among the people, when a child or an adult gave an assessment of "good or bad" to any phenomenon, the healer, seeing that a person is in a "hara" (mask, disguise), that is, supports the existence of some destructive system, asked him:
- How do you feel about this?
- Why is it right for you, is it not? Why is it “bad” or “good”?
- What does the criterion of correctness mean to you?
- For whom is something right and wrong in you?
- What do you assess from the point of view of correctness-incorrectness?
- Who evaluates "good-bad" in you?
And thus, the person realized that it is not the soul, and not the spirit, that lead him along the evaluation vector, but the GRAP.
Fourth, any level of enchantment is created through FEAR. The most ancient and strongest feeling. It doesn't matter what you are afraid of, but if the fear is associated with any aspect of the pendulum, it will receive your energy.
Anxiety and anxiety are already weaker, but still strong enough threads. These feelings very well record the emission of mental energy at the frequency of the pendulum. If something bothers you, you find it difficult to focus on something else.
Fifth, the enchantment also affects us through the Sense of GUILT.
Sixthly, through various psychological complexes of people.
COMPLEX is when something touches you to the living.
Inferiority complex: I have an unattractive appearance, I have no abilities and talents, I do not have enough intelligence or wit, I do not know how to communicate with people, I am unworthy.
A guilt complex: I am guilty, everyone condemns me, I have to bear my cross. Warrior complex: I have to be cool, I declare war on myself and everyone around me, I will fight for a place in the sun, I will take my strength.
The truth-lover complex: I will prove my case at any cost and prove to others that they are wrong. These and other complexes are personal keys to the energy of individuals.
AND A LITTLE MORE ABOUT THE REASONS FOR THE EXISTENCE OF CHARMS
1. Habit.
A person may realize that negative thoughts and actions are not good, but out of habit he makes old mistakes. Thus, habits often create problems and lead to ineffectiveness, and it is difficult to get rid of them. Habits are an illusion of comfort.
A person trusts more what is familiar for a long time. Anything new raises concerns. The old, familiar, has already proven itself through experience. It's like an old chair in which you sit to rest after work. Maybe the new is more convenient, but the old is more comfortable.
Comfort is characterized by concepts such as convenience, trust, positive experience, predictability. The new has these qualities to a much lesser extent, so it takes a long time for a new habit to become an old one.
2. Ignorance of fairy tales-dreams of each other before sexual and family relationships.
3. Inability to give each other strength, both physical (not sexual) and spiritual.
4. Inability to show your dreams to others.
5. Inability to empathize and rejoice, to show attention.
6. Inability of a woman to trust a man and "not to climb" forward.
7. Inability and unwillingness of a man to please a woman and trust her with his good and good - to invest in order to get more from the world.
8. The reluctance of women to be mistresses, and men - leaders.
9. Unwillingness to live and create together.
How is all this "treated"? How to remove this enchantment? CONSCIOUSNESS.
How to get out of this war? DO NOT RESPOND.
How to be happy? Understand who you are and why. AND GO YOUR OWN WAY - not the worst and not the best, but YOUR OWN.
