Simple but very effective rules of psychology that can turn your perception of the world!
Psychology rules that can make your life brighter, more positive, more exciting. Fill it with special meaning, wisdom and love.
Read and delve - these tips will be useful to each of us:
1. Rule of the Mirror
The people around me are my mirrors. They reflect the characteristics of my own personality, which are often not realized by me. For example, if someone is rude to me, it means that I want it so, I allow it. If someone deceives me over and over again, then I have a tendency to believe anyone. So there is no one to be offended.
2. Rule of Choice
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I realize that everything that happens in my life is the result of my own choice. And if today I communicate with a boring person, does it mean that I am the same boring and boring person? There are no bad and evil people - there are unhappy people. If I sort out their problems, then I like it. So there is no one to make a claim to. I am the cause of everything that happens to me. The author and creator of our destiny is ourselves.
3. Rule of Error
I agree that I could be wrong. Not always my opinion or my actions should be considered correct by other people. The real world is not only black and white, there is also light gray and dark white. I’m not IDEAL, I’m just a good person and I have the right to make mistakes. The main thing is to be able to recognize it and correct it in time.
4. Rule of Conformity
I have exactly what, and exactly so much, to which I correspond, what I deserve, no more, no less, whether it concerns relationships with people, work or money. If I cannot love a person to the fullest, it’s ridiculous to demand that this person loved me SO. So all my claims are meaningless. And at the same time, when I decide to change, the people around me also change (for the better)
5. Rule of Dependency
Nobody owes me anything. I can unselfishly help everyone I can. And it's a joy to me. To become kind, one must become strong. To become strong, you have to believe that I can do anything. And I believe! But you also need to be able to say "NO!"
6. Rule of Attendance
I live here and now. There is no past, because every next second the present comes. There is no future because it does not exist yet. Attachment to the past leads to depression, concern about the future generates anxiety. As long as I live in the present, I am REAL. There is reason to be glad.
7. Rule of Optimism
While we scold life, it passes by. The eyes see, the legs walk, the ears hear, the heart works, the Soul rejoices. My fitness is sunny summer, meadow and river. As long as I move, while the wind blows over my skin, I live. When I watch TV lying on the couch or chat with friends on the internet - I am not in this, but in the other world.