There are many subtle energetic connections in families that can be confused with vampirism. Therefore, let us clarify that a vampire loves only himself, he does not know how to love others and enjoy life. In the family, even moon vampires are always aggressive and daily give an energy shake to the whole family or to one of its members.
The first indicator of vampirism among spouses is jealousy. Jealousy is not love, but the techniques of vampires to keep their victim in constant energy (mental) tension and breakdown. Family dramas based on jealousy almost always lead to family breakdown. In the meantime, they are together, the vampire spouse, through jealousy, provokes the donor spouse for his energy supply.
It is very difficult for one of the spouses to live in constant tension and proof of their love and devotion. Jealousy is a disease of a deaf, blind and callous person, it is vampirism. The vampire does not see or hear the object of his love until he shakes it with his energy visor. And only after that can he grovel in his deceitful feelings. It is hard for a heart without love, hard for a body without a heart, - one might say, to paraphrase Homer.
Is it necessary to prove that love does not need proof, that love lives in one breath, that love is always afraid to offend its neighbor in some way, that true love does not suffer from doubts of faithfulness. Yes, we need to prove, because we live, not knowing with whom, we humiliate ourselves and come up with excuses: jealous - that means, he loves. But in fact it turns out that he is proud, suspicious, distrustful and sick with vampirism.
The French philosopher Rene Descartes said: "Jealousy is a kind of fear if you want to retain the possession of some kind of good, considering yourself unworthy, therefore it is suspicious and distrustful."
In search of a spouse or spouse, we often focus on the appearance or financial situation of the partner. This gives rise to imaginary love, it will certainly show the effect of vampirism. "Blind love" is always involved in carnal passions, and then these passions will shake the soul. Jealousy is a vice, it is spiritual, intellectual and physical limitation. Therefore, the soul suffers, the mind does not know what it is doing, and the body beats in search of strength.
The second factor of family vampirism can be called constant reproaches and nagging of one of the spouses, causing resentment and irritation. This is what the people call: to see a speck in someone else's eye, but not to notice a log in your own. Here the vampire firmly and constantly clings to the donor spouse. It's hard in a family, when there is no one to share with, to talk to, and if you try, then as a slap in the face you get a hail of reproaches. It is difficult to live without the emotional support of a loved one, and on this basis cervical osteochondrosis develops.
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Very often in family relationships, mother-in-law and mother-in-law act as vampires, but not to their children, but to those whom their children have chosen as their spouses. True, daughters-in-law and sons-in-law are also not gifts. One wise man said that whoever got a good son-in-law, he gained a son, and whoever was bad, he lost his daughter.
Once, after a lecture, a young woman came up to me and said that only now she realized that her mother-in-law was a pure vampire. I asked her not to tell anything more, and I myself gave a picture of how her mother-in-law behaves in the family. I spoke at length and in detail, and the woman told me that she had the feeling that I had lived in their apartment for many years. I will briefly retell this story.
Every day, when you come home from work, your mother-in-law will meet you at the front door. She splashes out such words, from which you "explode". There are always a lot of reasons and reasons: I did something wrong, put it down, took it away. It doesn't matter what, where and how, the main thing is to catch on, turn on the trigger mechanism of your feelings, cause a surge of emotions and irritation. And she does it easily. At the same time, opening her mouth, she smacks her lips and swallows your waste energy. All. The conflict is over by the end of the next day, when you come back from work.
The whole evening and the next morning, the mother-in-law no longer yells at you, does not swear at you. She can pet you and ask for forgiveness, she becomes quiet like a mouse, and affectionate like a cat. You forgive her everything, but your strength and health are gone, you cannot pay attention to your children and your husband, go to bed early. You wake up hard in the morning.
And during the day at your favorite work, in the joy of communication, you are again charged with pure human feelings, but this is only up to the doorstep. Your mother-in-law feels how you got off the bus, entered the entrance, the elevator … She is already at the door and is "sincerely glad" to meet you. You could give her your love and joy, but this is not, and then you become the only salvation of her life, but for this you need to be shaken, blown up …
If only once, - I continue, - to her words, bitter and offensive, you would say: “YES! I AM THIS!”, - and at the same time, proudly raising their heads, they walked into the apartment, then your mother-in-law, who threw out the rest of her strength and received nothing in return, would have collapsed right there, feeling insensible at the door.
“Lord,” the woman says to me, “it happened once. I did not respond to her rudeness, smiled and went into the room. I heard that something fell, turned around, and this mother-in-law lies at the door and does not move. I do not understand what happened, what happened. Children ran out of the room, the husband: "What did you do to your grandmother?" I was dumbfounded. I began to assure them that I myself did not understand, that I did not even come close, she fell down herself. The whole family began to bring her to her senses - it did not work. They called an ambulance - to no avail. An ambulance took her to the hospital and she was there for two months.
Here I again suggested that if she still has a son or daughter, then after the hospital she had to go to live with one of them, but she never returned to you.
“Yes,” the woman replied, “she really went to live with another son, another daughter-in-law.
- Here, - I conclude, - it turns out that there is a trick against scrap, as the people say. And then, when the children grow up, the grandmother will shake her strength out of them. With relatives it is always easier to do this and there are plenty of motives.
Another woman told me that only now, after the lecture, she understood why every year, when she leaves for the dacha, for the whole summer, her mother-in-law, having lost her donor, ends up in the hospital and lies there all summer. What is the staff like in the hospital? Sick relatives, whether at home or in the hospital, support their existence on petty grievances, annoying others.
Naturally, lying in bed, sometimes for years, they are forced to take away strength from others. And this is an indicator that they will have to lie down for a long time, and drugs and therapy will not have the desired effect on them. Apparently, hospitals need to create an entertainment industry to brighten up their gray existence. We need comfort, interiors, music, handicrafts. And the house? And again the verses of Pushkin come to mind, who laments:
But my God, what a boredom
Sitting with a sick person day and night, Without leaving a step away!
What a base deceit
To amuse half-dead
To correct his pillows, It's sad to bring medicine
Sigh and think to yourself:
"When will the devil take you!"
And in those days, they also did not know how to treat vampires..!
Turn on the "triple heater" of your soul for your sick relatives. It will displace, dissolve the heavy energies of the disease and fill the body with a new quality.
I knew a woman whose mother and son are vampires. The son is a drug addict, and his mother has been bedridden for several years. Both shake her daily, but she still loves them, pity and gives all of herself to serve them. Every three days, the mother brings her to a swoon, but her love for her mother brings the woman back to life. The son threatens to kill every day, and she forgives him everything.
After the lecture, in her note, she wrote: “I realized that I am a classic donor, thank you, you charged me with good energy and with your lecture distracted me from my terrible thoughts. Unknowingly, you have cut off my last hope. It means that this is my destiny - a test and punishment for my son.
Now he is in the hospital and curses me, but love and pity are much greater than my fear of him - much! And let him kill, but I love him! And I will not go on vacation even for one day, since there is no one to leave my mother with, she has terrible pains. I have to be there and make her life easier."
Yes, love works wonders! But another miracle is even greater. If you sincerely and lovingly tell your sick relative who does not get out of bed that it is you who are to blame for his illness, that you brought him to the state in which he is now, if you can convince him of this and ask him forgiveness (and this is not difficult to do, because he already thinks that you and those around him are to blame for this), then it is then, PRAYING, having received his FORGIVENESS, a Miracle occurs. Your bedridden relative begins to come to life. On the same day or the next, he will independently get out of bed, start walking, eating, singing songs, etc.
Your life will change radically, but from now on you must become an altruist - to live for others, completely devoting yourself to serving people, helping them. Forget about yourself, this is your cross, but this is a good cross, it will bring you spiritual happiness.
Only in this way will you burn the relative's Karma transferred to you, extinguish your Karma, and the ancestral curse will end.
Here is another example, told by a woman in Perm, when I was giving a course of lectures there. It belongs to the most inhuman form of family vampirism - energy looting. There is cunning and cruelty in it, it cannot even be called an animal, because animals do not suffer from a lack of energy, they live in harmony with nature. Here is the story.
“Every morning, for many years, I hear from my mother, and she is already 77 years old, the same words:“You are not dead yet ?! When will you die ?! This is how my day begins. You can get used to this and not get irritated, but the mother, not receiving a response, falls to the floor and begins to bite her hands and scratch her face.
At the same time, she makes animal sounds, which the neighbors come running to. She shows them what I supposedly did to her. The neighbors then know that I am not like that, they feel sorry for me, but they are hidden about my mother, and sometimes they are openly irritated.
A few minutes later the mother gets up, as if nothing happened. Her wounds heal like a cat. For fifteen years she has kept me in suspense, saying that she is changing the apartment, and all this time she is suing, but she herself does not appear, or she does something wrong with the papers, she pulls. Now she goes to various organizations and public bodies in Perm, says that I beat her, shows scratches and bites.
She once managed to bypass sixteen organizations in two days complaining about me. And they believe her everywhere, and consider it their duty to call me for an investigation. Constant phone calls from them do not give me rest, I am tired of such a life. And they don't even listen to my explanations, they shout: “How dare you! She's a mother!"
And I realized that it was her fault that I already had the second disability group. The only thing that saves me is that I make music, write poetry, draw - it gives me back strength. I take a break from her in the summer when she lives in the country."
This is how cunning, evil and cruel family vampires are. God forbid to have them always with you. From close ones, the blows are stronger and hurt longer. One single extravagant married half can nullify beautiful impulses, and accumulated wisdom, and a directed attitude, and life itself.
But on the other hand, there is a silver lining. On them, on vampires, we can learn how to properly respond to energy impulses that constantly arise in life around us. “I send you like sheep among wolves: so be wise as snakes and simple as doves,” says the Gospel. Until we understand this, we will fall into the trap of a deep energy conflict and crisis, we will suffer and be ill. And only through awareness and will will calmness and joy come to us.
Family vampires live excruciatingly long, not giving life to their household. THEY EXPERIENCE THEIR DONORS, and we wonder why good people die before bad people. How many unfortunate destinies, families and talents have been turned to dust, because the cunning of vampires was not recognized and stopped at the time. We didn't even know about their existence. But we create abstruse teachings or centers.
And, finally, there is another kind of family vampirism, but I have not come across its gross forms. It belongs to the lunar manifestation and proceeds smoothly, only at times creating tense situations.
This kind of vampirism arises in parents when their children marry or get married. Fear or fear of being lonely in old age pushes a parent, usually one of them, to put children in material and financial dependence. Some people like it, and they are even happy from such care (for the time being, for the time being), while others are annoyed, they do not want to be dependent, they are burdened by obsession, parents, shackled by petty care and reproaches on this basis.
Many people suffer not from a lack of strength and feelings, but from their excess. And if such people do not have a creative beginning, where one could throw out these generally good energies for peaceful purposes, then they begin to suppress a loved one with them.
For example, it might look like this.
A woman is very fond of cleanliness and order, which in general is a noble quality - to keep the space in which you live clean and tidy. But there is always someone nearby: husband, children, relatives, who violate the joyful world she creates. And all her dissatisfaction pours out precisely in this.
Many women complained to me about their relatives, saying that they live with vampires, and asked for advice on how to deal with them, how to wean them from vampirism. When clarifying behavior and situations, it turned out that there were no vampires in her family, that she herself was limited in the criteria for assessing what was happening around. That it is she who is the first to break down on her loved ones because of the slightest speck or wrong thing.
She can be called a vampire only conditionally, but if she does not expand the scope of her feelings, then such a complex on one thing will undoubtedly give rise to vampirism. And hence the breakdowns over the slightest trifles. This also applies to men equally.
The causes of tension in family life, generated by vampirism, lie in other aspects.
We already know that around the human body, on its aura, negative clots of energies are held. We collected them at work, on the street, in public places, and when you come home, it's best to take a shower. They wash off easily. Otherwise, these energies will be felt by your family members, as something cold and sticky, heavy and oppressive comes from you. You noticed that when a family member comes home, a difficult and nervous situation immediately arises. These energies oppress everyone until an energetic discharge called “all equally” occurs.
Many vampires cannot afford to get out of their way at work. This is due to prestigious work and social status, and therefore they parasitize only at home. They keep their loved ones with “carrot and stick,” first they suck them out, shake out their strength, deprive them of joy, and then placate them.
Or like this: five days a week your husband is a normal person, and on Saturdays and Sundays it is as if a demon is possessed by him. And so many years in a row. This means that five days a week he shakes everyone in the service, and on weekends he charges your energy. We can say that you are still lucky, and finding a way not to communicate with him these days, since there is no love between you, this is your problem.
No matter how many threads twist, the end will come anyway, so most often in these families, disagreements and tragedies occur.
There is another type of family vampirism, which arises in a married relationship soon after the wedding or the birth of the first child. Here, both men and women display a special kind of mental state that can be expressed in a simple and concise word - dissatisfaction.
Most often, a woman suffers from this, and any suffering deprives of strength, de-energizes. Being at home or at work all day, she, dissatisfied with her husband, constantly tells something bad about him. Think of your friends or relatives who wash bones for their husbands. By doing this, they undermine their strength. When a husband comes home from work, he does not feel the force from his wife that would pull, magnetize, which would cause a desire to hug and kiss.
There is no this, he meets a cold and soulless wife, and therefore even a small scandal or silent irritation between them will surely arise. And the empty soul will provoke him, the one that has already shaken out. Normal spouses do not quarrel over trifles, they save their strength for a bigger scandal. Oh, what am I saying. Normal spouses always tell everyone only good things about each other. This creates a field of joy and love, which is what I wish you. Love covers many sins.
You can't get away from the topic of family vampirism. You can change jobs, keep vampire neighbors out, and avoid irritating people in public places.
But at home, in the family, when you are dependent and connected not by love, but by circumstances, on this basis vampirism blooms and progresses. It is the vampire who will create and dictate the conditions, tone and rhythm for the whole family. Once charged, the vampire begins to sing songs, in the melodies of which solemn sounds sound.
This is what Yuri K. wrote to me in Saratov after the lecture.
“This is exactly what I missed so much to understand the truth about my illness. The fact is, I fell under the influence of a vampire. This happened a very long time ago, in 1978, and continues to this day. I was a very cheerful and healthy person, but as soon as my parents changed their apartment and we began to live with my grandparents, my health began to deteriorate, and now I am a disabled person of the second group.
On the contrary, if my grandmother was in the hospital every year until the 78th year, with a heart, with terrible asthma, then after we moved in, she never lay in the hospital, she no longer remembers asthma, she even began to read without glasses. My grandmother is a pronounced moon vampire, and all the signs you mentioned fit her. And I am writing because I hope to learn from you when this hell will end."
In one of the letters from Irkutsk, a woman told about her 75-year-old mother.
“Living with her is very difficult for me. Outwardly, she looks very healthy and energetic, but after she splashes out on me a hail of resentments and reproaches. After reading your book, I realized that this is energy vampirism. Most of all I got from my mother when I was late after work. But now my work schedule changed, and I began to come home two hours later.
The first days I found my mother half-dead. She demanded that I return to my previous work schedule and schedule, but, fortunately, this cannot be done. I don’t know how I withstood my mother’s psychic attacks during these days, but a miracle happened!
When I returned after work one day, I did not find my mother at home. I got worried about her. Where could she go with sore legs and on crutches? Everything turned out to be simple. She began to use public transport during the evening rush hours. I came home cheerful and energetic. Her face was flushed. But the most surprising thing is that she stopped making any claims to me.
Rain or heat, snow and frost, nothing could keep her at home any longer. It turns out that she was simply forced to switch to other people. Neighbors told me that she somehow got into a crowded bus, passed several stops and got out. And this always happens with swearing and insulting passengers.
At the bus stop, she waits for the next bus, which is necessarily overcrowded, and starts again getting on it with abuse. And so every day. After reading your book, I realized that my mother is engaged or even sick with classical vampirism. Help, tell me what can be done to treat her."
That is why I am writing this book, so that everyone will find answers to their questions about the treatment and protection from vampires in it. Often in families where parents are vampires, children grow up to be the same. When such parents, day after day, year after year, for the slightest trifle or for some reason, break into a child, they raise a vampire for themselves. Such parents not only forbid the child to do something, but always do it harshly and rudely, with irritation and hatred: do not climb, do not take, do not jump, do not shout, sit quietly, etc.
At the same time, they humiliate and call names the child. And they do not know that the time will come when "the mouse's tears will flow to the cat." When such a child grows up, he becomes a vampire himself and shakes his parents. How many families I had to see sick with vampirism, how many unfortunate parents tried to find in me an answer, protection and salvation from the son of a sadist.
The Epistle of the Holy Apostle Paul says: "Fathers, do not irritate your children, so that they do not become discouraged." When will we understand that “everything is back to normal” and that everyone will get back what he sows around him ?!
I have seen many shy and downtrodden children who, growing up on the street, in a company, hone the "skill" of revenge against their parents, teachers and other adults, in contact with whom they always received physical and spiritual slaps in the face. Parents who did not give the child either love or affection, let them not count on a happy old age, children will remain indifferent to them.
And if in childhood a child suffered from you almost daily beatings and insults, know that the same awaits you in old age. This is your Karma - the law of retribution. On this basis, many karmic diseases appear, without understanding and eliminating the causes of which the disease cannot be cured. All that remains for you is humility and repentance, and I conjure you, remember this!
Another circumstance is characteristic: lunar vampires in the family are content with the energy of one family member, as a rule, the weakest and most defenseless. Solar vampires shake the whole family. Here is one of the typical letters on this topic.
“I read your book and became convinced once again that I really had to live with two vampires. So lucky! One of them is my father. It’s not good to talk about it, but he is an extremely unpleasant person. Not only I do not love him, but also my mother, sister, all relatives and even just acquaintances.
I remember from childhood how he poisoned the three of us, brought us to tears, and then calmed down and seemed to give in. At any time of the day, he turned on the TV loudly at the same time as the radio, turned on the lights in all the rooms, and the dishes began to rattle loudly in the kitchen. He still does all this.
At night he can call anyone from his acquaintances and at the same time speak loudly. He says that he does not hear well, and when he doesn’t need anything, he will surely hear. Naturally, with all his behavior, he brought everyone to a state of shaking. And God doesn’t know what to say to him. He started yelling and hitting his mother. My sister and I are in tears, but at least he can. “It’s your mother’s fault,” is his favorite phrase.
When he is at home, everyone walks in suspense and once again does not want to leave the room. And if he enters there himself, then you just start to shake - such an unpleasant person. He doesn't like animals. Now I have a dog, we live separately from our parents. When I come to my parents with her, and my father is not at home, then the dog is calm. As soon as he shoves the key into the keyhole, a hysterical barking of a dog begins, which is difficult to stop. Several times it happened that the dog bit his father.
At home, negative energy reigns, although the rooms were sanctified. Probably no one has as many cockroaches as we do. It's just trouble. Already many means have been tried, but the result is deplorable. In summer, home flowers bloom on the balcony. Mom wants them to bloom in the apartment. But when you bring them from the balcony, after a while the flowers begin to die. Oddly enough, loaches grow very well.
Our mother is constantly ill. In recent years, I have somehow grown old. There is no more strength to live next to my husband, but to me and my father. If you write about all his dirty tricks, then there is simply not enough paper. From time to time he accuses one of us that we stole something from him. And it literally torments you to hysteria on this basis.
Until I was eighteen, I lived with my parents. And now "happiness"! My grandmother and grandfather (my mother's parents) received a two-room apartment and really wanted me to live with them. I was so glad that I would see my father less often, that my profession - a children's nurse - would get more strength to work. After a certain period of time, my joy darkened. The grandmother "took" for me. My grandfather was a calm person, I respected him (Heavenly kingdom to him).
I am by nature cheerful, but calm. So my grandmother didn't like everything about me. She was looking only for the bad, the good just did not want to see. I couldn't come home late, I couldn't take a shower, I couldn't wash every weekend. Do not iron the linen, otherwise the iron will burn out. You can't talk on the phone for a long time, and even laugh out loud. You should have seen her face the moment I break into her. How much happiness is in her eyes, how much balm pours out on her heart. And so every day.
Over the six years of living with my grandmother, I have lost six kilograms. I developed hypotension, and my grandmother suffers from hypertension. I was constantly depressed. I didn't want to go home to this hell. I often found myself walking slowly from the bus stop to the house, although it is only a two minute walk.
And what is more interesting. The grandfather was so thin, and by the end of his life and weak, that he looked like a covered skeleton. And the grandmother is still in bodies, although the grandfather is older. When my grandfather died, I moved out of their apartment. It was not in my power to remain with her alone."
Alexander Astrogor, from the book "Energy Vampirism"