You can live in different ways: someone just goes with the flow, believing that little depends on us and everything is already predetermined, for someone on the contrary, all life is a struggle with everything and everyone, he always and everywhere proves his own, only he is guided by the righteousness, and someone goes in his own direction, in the direction he needs, carefully avoiding obstacles on the way.
But no matter what principle of movement we choose, the world speaks to us in one language - through people and situations. Situations, people who come to us, unexpected tasks - this is all that needs to be dealt with, something that needs to be learned, because it is through overcoming such obstacles that a person develops, so this happens for absolutely everyone. Another question is whether we want to see, accept and understand it, or hide and close our eyes. And most often we try to get away from them, but somewhere subconsciously realizing that this has already happened, that something similar has already happened in my life, we catch the feeling that this is not accidental. Well, when the cyclical nature of life events is already obvious, then we simply fall into despair, “Well, how can it be! Again?! Some kind of vicious circle! And again, everyone goes through this circle in their own way - someone simply resigns himself and recognizes himself as a loser, quietly living out his life, someone fights the world with the stubbornness of a maniac, trying to prove to the world that this is not true, and someone adapts sacrificing yourself and your life for the sake of not being responsible for your life yourself.
A cycle is really a circle along which we move endlessly, bumping into the same consequences, but with aggravation. And there is only one way to get out of it - by understanding what the reason is, and this is the first step to getting out of the cycle, this is a kind of "STOP". And only after that, work on the change begins. Everything is like with an illness: first, the cause is determined, then a diagnosis is made, a method of treatment is prescribed and the process itself begins until the moment of recovery. In the same way, this scheme is applied when changing a person's life.
The state of things in which a person is is a testing tool in order to determine what is happening in his life. Has it changed for the better? It means that we have passed this level, have coped with it, let's move on. Hasn't changed? So everything is new, nothing personal.
Life without resistance under one's own control is always based on knowledge. And above all, this is an understanding of who I am, what I can and how to do it. This is the management of my emotions, my fears, the state, this is my own acquired skills and calculated life scenarios, this is the ability to bypass obstacles and understand what kind of situations are coming to me, why and what life lessons I need to learn.
Knowledge is always freedom and faith in yourself, this is something that no one can ever take from you, this is something that helps you live, not survive.
Author: Lebed I. N.