There is one thing that most people don't know:
Happiness is possible only when you realize yourself as a person, when you realize your vocation, your nature. If you stick to something, some familiar place, stability, there will be stability. But there will never be satisfaction. Internally, you need to weigh what you want - external stability or you want to be a happy person.
Instructions on how to understand your purpose:
STEP 1
Trust yourself.
If a person has a deep uncertainty, if he constantly doubts some of his actions, desires, it will be very difficult for him to understand his calling. Why? Because the purpose is within the person, within the personality. This is the nature that is given to the person by the Highest principle. And if a person does not try to comprehend himself, his “I”, his personal needs, if he has a very deep distrust of himself, it will be very difficult for him to reveal it. Therefore, the first thing to do is to understand that we are parts of God and that he wants us to be realized as individuals. He has already given us some kind of nature, some talents. Therefore, looking for oneself in the world, realizing oneself is nothing more than a step towards Him.
STEP 2
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Purpose as a very deep understanding of what I want, what my desires, deepest needs are born in a certain purity.
If we have a lot of self-interest, ignorance, lower material qualities, then the vocation does not manifest. Destination manifests itself at the level of pure consciousness, which is not defiled. Therefore, the second step is to develop a culture of pure life in its various aspects: pure consciousness, pure food, environmentally friendly activities. Then the consciousness will be purified and the contact with your “I” will be built on a very deep level, understanding of yourself will come.
STEP 3
Turn to the Higher beginning for help with a request, so that it helps to understand your calling.
STEP 4
Keep looking.
It is important to actively seek yourself. It is wrong to simply hand over your life to God, so that he would suffer and think about what each person should do in life. We are completely independent individuals. God gave us freedom, so we need to take some steps in life, try different activities, look for ourselves. The activity that is given as a vocation will immediately respond with a taste: "I want to continue doing this." Sometimes, before understanding their purpose, people have a certain fear: “What if some vocation will open that I don’t want to do !? But then there will already be a desperate situation, because you will have to comply with it … ". Destiny is a deep personal desire. This is not something imposed. This is what a realized person wants to do endlessly.
STEP 5
There is no need to envy others and think: “Someone else has such a good destiny! I would like this."
Each has its own role in this world. The material world is so precisely calculated that each has its own place. If we try to take someone else's place, we will notice that it is already taken. In general, all places in the world are occupied except ours. Because no one can take our place, this is our nature, our phenomenal feature. We must strive to comprehend ourselves, because we are eternal parts of God. There is an eternal relationship between us, and you need to turn to yourself and understand what I want as a person, what deep needs I have.