We all live in a society. Therefore, whether we like it or not, we have to deal with others. Our position in society depends on the results of this interaction, be it a company of friends or a corporation in which we work.
We are not ordinary ordinary people, so we will not leave this aspect of life to chance and analyze the question “how to please people” from the point of view of esotericism and psychology. We will talk about a situation when you meet a person who is important to you in one way or another. This could be a job interview, a blind date, or a chance meeting with an interesting person.
Psychological points that help people like you:
1) Openness. With all your appearance, you must show that you trust the interlocutor. An open posture and correct body position (the front of the body is always directed towards the subject) will create the desired effect even before the conversation starts. Also important is the lack of closeness in the little things (not allowed: crossed arms or legs, clenched fists).
2) Interest. Let the other person know that you are interested in him. Ask a couple of questions and listen carefully. All people are interesting in their own way. Try to find in the interlocutor what is special about him and try to get him to tell you about it. It will move him.
3) Name. As soon as you have been told the name of the person - remember it. Repeat to yourself several times, and at the beginning of communication try to use it in conversation. That way you will remember better. Subsequently, also periodically insert the name into the conversation, even if you usually do not. As soon as you say the name of a person, he immediately gives you additional trust points. By doing this, you help him feel important.
4) Look. Look the other person in the eye 50 - 70% of the time. On a subconscious level, he will understand that he is interesting to you. But you yourself also like people who show interest in you.
5) Mirroring. Pay attention to the pose of the interlocutor and, in general, repeat it. On a subconscious level, this will cause a positive reaction.
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6) Interests. Try to find out immediately what is the area of interest of the interlocutor. If you have a common theme - great - you have something to talk about. If not, take an interest in his hobby for the time being. Ask for more information. Take my word for it - after such a conversation, he will consider you the best interlocutor, even if you just listened silently.
7) Hidden compliment. If the situation is favorable, you can make the usual compliment. But if you think that such is not appropriate - do it secretly. The ideal option is to tell a mutual acquaintance that the person you met interested you. Usually, this information is passed on. It is this kind of second-hand praise that brings everyone the maximum joy, since it is considered sincere. This is not forgotten.
These 7 tips can be found in a variety of literature - from NLP to pickup techniques. I have selected 7 of the most working ones that can be applied during one contact with an object for maximum effect.
At the beginning, you can apply one moment at a time. Then add. When you can apply all 7, it will become a trifle to please people.
An esoteric trick to make people like you.
There are many similar techniques. But I will tell you the simplest and most useful one. It is suitable both for the first acquaintance and for softening a tense situation. In any case, after applying it, the subject of influence will be positively disposed towards you.
If you have experience working with energy - great, if not - it doesn't matter.
When you are near a person, try to feel your etheric body. It doesn't matter if you know what it is. Just trust - you have it and you can control it with your attention. Visualize a warm cloud of light around you, piercing through you, warming and protecting you.
Did you feel it? Have you presented? Do not doubt - energy moves after attention - this is a fact.
Imagine how this cloud grows towards the selected person and envelops him. Feel how this person relaxes - he is under your protection. Imagine a glowing cloud enveloping both of you. Fix this image in your attention - take a mental photograph. Let the look melt.
You can switch to other thoughts, but you will remain with a feeling of oneness with the person. It's not just a feeling - it's a real connection. The trick is that your subject will feel it too. Outwardly, this will manifest itself as a change of mood.
In my student years, I developed this technique as a synthesis of several others and applied it quite often. It always works. I saw the results especially clearly during exams and retakes (there were many of them). When the case smelled of kerosene and I realized that my chances of a favorable outcome were zero, I “worked out” the teacher and walked calmly with the record. Even if before that he was vomiting and metal, when I appeared, he switched to a calm tone and, usually, with fatigue in his voice and complaints about us - students, he gave the cherished assessment (often without even asking a question). In the circle of students it was called "the ball rolled", but I knew what was the matter, since it "rolled" only with the right actions on my part.
Is this not a deception of the world or people? Not. You pay the person with energy, getting his favor in return. Trying to please people in this way is more of a charity on your part. Who besides you will share with them protection and peace?