Words and the intonation with which we pronounce them have an impact on people not only emotionally. I'm not talking about curses or magic spells that can cause harm now, we will talk about them separately. I mean a kind word, which, in the literal sense, is capable of working miracles, turning dark energy into light and even healing.
The most common kind of "kind" word is prayer. Regardless of faith, a person turns to heaven for support. As priests say in such cases, you do not know the canonical text, pronounce it in your own words and you will be heard. The main thing is that prayer should come from the heart. But I will not talk about prayer words either in this article - this topic requires careful analysis.
I want to share my observations in the household area. To draw your attention to the usual phrases that we pronounce every day, without even thinking about their sacred meaning.
How do you usually respond to praise or gratitude? I am sure that the standard phrase sounds like this: "not at all." But this is the wrong answer. And here's why: psychologists say that by answering “nothing for what” we belittle ourselves and the one who thanks. How it works. Suppose you have done a good deed, and a friend from the heart, with tears in his eyes, expresses delight and admiration. With the best of intentions, you carelessly throw, they say, yes, there is nothing to thank! It turns out that you belittle your own success. False modesty negates wasted effort. And what about a friend, why do we say that you also put him in an awkward position? It turns out that you did it, but he was so weak, he could not solve an easy task, I had to turn to you for help! For you this is a trifle, but for him it is not, for him an insoluble problem. How helpless, stupid and unhappy he is!By this you subconsciously put him below yourself.
It seems that they did not say anything special, but in one phrase they completely crossed out the wonderful energy message, because the person thanked from a pure heart!
So how is the GOOD TO GIVE right? How to choose the right words so as not to offend the applicant and not belittle your own contribution to the common cause?
Psychologists advise on gratitude modestly, but with dignity. You can tell a friend that you were happy to help, that you are ready to do more for him. Likewise, the value of gratitude does not diminish and a person's self-esteem does not suffer. If you want to be answered in kind to you, you can say: "I think that in this situation you did the same for me." Do you feel the difference? There is no false modesty, the value of the deed remains the same, and the friend understands that the problem was really difficult and it was unrealistic to deal with it alone.
The ability to accept gratitude with dignity is a whole science. Until recently, I also, modestly looking down, responded to the words of loved ones, but intuitively I understood that I was doing the wrong thing.
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The correct answer, a well-constructed phrase in response to praise changes the world. It carries a positive charge. The vibrations from the word spread like circles on water and create even more joy.
I think there is no need to deal with semantic analysis of the words "thank you" and "thank you", everyone has known about their origin for a long time. But try to pronounce them not mechanically, as we used to do, but separately, in syllables. Put in words their primordial, sublime and sacred meaning. You will hear how they will sound completely differently, and how the interlocutor's face will change at this moment.
It is wrong to refuse kind words in your own address from the point of view of esotericism. Such actions put a block for the forces of good: you get neither moral nor energy satisfaction from the work done.
By denying gratitude, we do not allow the person to exchange positive things with us. The energy of happiness stops flowing freely between us, it does not multiply, does not return a hundredfold, but remains a dead weight on the soul. Only the correct answer can wake up this thread.
Recently, a friend once again thanked me for my help. So I caught myself thinking that I almost answered with the usual phrase "but not at all," he stopped and fell silent. Then she thought about it and quoted her psychologists' statements on this matter. It turned out that she, too, had no idea about such a phenomenon. Like many of us, she habitually brushed off gratitude, considering it superfluous! And then, like hundreds of people, she was sad about the help without an answer. How many good deeds Natalia did in her life, but rarely who reciprocated. And the whole point is in the wrong wording of the answer, because you need to put hope for the best in it. Thank you for your help and express your desire for response, program yourself and your friend to exchange the energy of good!
Now, when we say “thank you” or “thank you” for something, we do not pronounce the word automatically, in a hurry, but do it with our hearts, highlighting each semantic component: God save, I give blessing. And when we get the praise we deserve, we answer that each of us would have done exactly the same, would have done even more. You see how easy it is to manage the streams of good using the power of ordinary words that we use every day!