The vampire theme has become very popular in cinema and popular culture. But if real vampires live only in fairy tales, then energy parasites can be encountered everywhere - in line at the store, at work and even at home. According to psychologists, this is not a myth, but a completely explainable psychological phenomenon. An energy vampire is a person with weak energy, who is forced to replenish it at the expense of other people, causing them negative emotions.
All people are inherently a bit vampires, because the exchange of energies is a normal life process. However, a real psychological parasite only "sucks" strength from others, giving nothing in return. Many of these people themselves are unaware of their insidious nature and behave so involuntarily. Distinguish between sun and moon vampires.
Solar vampires
These are eternal sacrifices and whiners. They are constantly looking for free ears to pour out their sick soul, to tell how hard it is for them to live and how unfair fate is to them. In appearance, a solar vampire may seem sensitive and good-natured, but it is unlikely that he is eager to help another person. His goal is to force himself to listen, to switch the interlocutor to his pessimistic wave. He is not looking for wise advice and consolation, he just needs to whine and cry into his waistcoat.
Solar vampires dramatize everything, make, as they say, an elephant out of a fly. A faucet in the kitchen is broken - a tragedy, a poor harvest of potatoes - the end of the world is near! They are not interested in consolations and reasonable arguments, they will always notice only the bad around. It is better not to communicate with them for a long time, otherwise they will charge you with the energy of decline and sadness. Of course, it is very important to be able to listen to a person, and sometimes everyone wants to speak out. But in the case of an energy vampire, politeness will only hurt.
Moon vampires
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This type includes angry, aggressive people. They are easy to recognize by their sharp, unfriendly eyes. They are constantly looking for an excuse to cling to a person - to criticize him, reproach, insult him. It doesn't matter if he is right or not, the main thing is to make the victim want to snap back and get nervous.
Often the moon vampire is the first to start screaming and even throwing tantrums, but sometimes he can bring a person calmly. From his sharp and unfair words, the victim first defends himself, and then breaks down, cries, literally shakes her. The connection has been established and now the vampire can freely "drink" energy from the donor.
How to recognize an energy vampire?
1. The behavior of vampires is active and offensive. They attract attention by any means, initiate disputes and conflicts.
2. Such a person cannot be convinced of his righteousness, because he does not need the truth, but only the quarrel itself.
3. The vampire constantly seeks out new information, follows emergency news, loves gossip and condemnation.
4. He always sees shortcomings in others, and greatly exaggerates them. But he stubbornly refuses to notice the dignity of people.
5. The vampire is pathologically jealous. He does not want anyone else to influence his victim. At first he can be kind and caring, but very soon his "love" turns into despotism.
6. Being in the company of an energy vampire is unpleasant and uncomfortable. He pushes you away and you cannot explain why.
7. After communicating with a vampire, you feel depressed and overwhelmed. A bad feeling remains on the soul, even if the person behaved politely.
How to protect yourself from an energy vampire?
Usually the actions and words of vampires do not conform to the laws of logic and common sense. Don't try to prove something to them, it doesn't make any sense. It is better to retreat right away - this way you will preserve your moral health. If you can't get away from the conversation, stay calm and calm. Don't let the vampire piss you off. The more you justify yourself and be indignant, the more energy he will drink from you.
The best way to deal with energy vampires is to ignore them. If possible, cut off all ties with them, or communicate as little as possible, only on business. When a vampire attacks, try to translate everything into a joke, think about something good. You can imagine an invisible glass ball around you that protects you from the negative words of the offender.
If the vampire is one of your family members, you need to move out and live separately. If this is not possible, you can try to adapt. Don't take his criticism to heart, don't let him into your personal space. Make it clear that you cannot get on your head. Do it calmly but firmly. The vampire himself needs to find an interesting occupation so that he does not have time to "nag" the household.
Conclusion: wasting nerves and health on energy vampires is completely pointless. You should avoid contact with them, and you should only communicate with those with whom you are easy and interesting.
