This question is increasingly being asked by modern women who are confused in relationships with guys. The media paint them such different images - rich and poor, aggressive and meek, rude and affectionate men. But black screens don't reflect reality. They distort it …
A real man is determined by one single criterion - morality. Moral purity is the greatest strength of a man, sharply distinguishing him from the rest. Guys from an early age must overcome all kinds of difficulties for the sake of their future and the future of their loved ones. In difficult conditions, the value of high morality is obvious, but an easy life, on the contrary, corrupts a person, makes him weak, deprives him of masculinity. The triumph of morality is the true triumph of the individual. For a man with high moral principles, words do not differ from deeds. He is an honest worker and protector, not a grimacing glamorous fool.
A real man is moral, that is, chaste. He is able to remain faithful to his beloved girl who is in his life or to one who has not yet appeared, but is intended for him. Chastity is not a complex at all, but an indicator of the level of manhood. Such a man cannot be deceived, seduced and led astray. A chaste man is capable of love. He carries it in his heart to give it to the one and only. His love is not flowers, sweets and expensive gifts, but the ability to give his life for his girlfriend.
A real man is moral, that is, honest. He respects himself and others. Therefore, he acts without deception. Honesty makes it possible to be understood and heard. A worthy person will not allow himself to lie to a woman, wanting to get anything from her. After all, this is an encroachment on her honor, and on her own honor too. And without honor - there is no man. Modern people are afraid of honesty like fire. Honest guys are considered cruel because they tell the truth. But building a truly successful life without truth is impossible.
A real man is moral, that is, modest. He doesn't need any show-off - branded clothing, expensive watches, business-class cars, the latest mobile devices. The life of a worthy guy is filled with self-development, creativity, service to the highest ideals. He tries to maximize his existing personal potential, and does not throw dust in the eyes of those around him as a consumer riffraff. A man should not be pompous like a stupid turkey. Neatness and rigor are his allies. A person worthy of respect finds himself in creative activity, and not in the accumulation of material wealth. He takes pride in his efforts and results, so he is simple and humble.
A real man is moral, that is, responsible. He knows what he is striving for. He has goals and a plan for achieving them, which makes it possible to build a life strategy in detail, set priorities and not waste precious time on useless activities. A responsible guy is strong in spirit. Therefore, he is not afraid to make decisions and be responsible for the consequences. He admits mistakes and corrects them. His promises are equal to his actions. A life with a constant awareness of its responsibility is noble, fulfilling and filled with great meaning. Responsibility is a kind of patronage. And a real man is ready to give protection to a woman, children, society as a whole. Without responsibility, life is empty and dull, there is neither love, nor devotion, nothing sacred in it …
A real man is moral, that is, wise. Everything he does is conditioned by the understanding of his principles, which are based on the highest moral values. Wisdom is a man's compass in the outside world, which helps to find the way to life goals. A wise man is able to distinguish truth from lies, honesty from hypocrisy, love from attraction, good from evil. He confidently acts in accordance with his spiritual concept of life. If the guy steps aside, the death of the personality begins with an inevitable collapse in everything.
A real man is moral, that is, he is able to love. Love is not lying in bed, scenes of jealousy, idiotic prohibitions, betrayal, friend zones and the like. Love is, first of all, an interest in the development of the object of love. Love is neither sold nor bought (although the media tell us otherwise). A real man realizes that love and relationships are not only a guarantee of happiness, but also the hardest work. But the ability to work is a reflection of a man. A loving guy will never cause suffering to the chosen one, will not humiliate or betray. He will be calm because he made his choice.
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As mentioned above, the media are diligently scraping the image of a real man out of public consciousness, replacing it with glamorous undersides, effeminate cowards and stupid degenerates. Real life returns everything to its place. And no matter what the black screens broadcast, there are still a lot of real men.
Zhenya Laptev