5 practical tips from psychologists who will teach you how to properly materialize your thoughts. Take note!
Everyone is vying about the materiality of our thoughts: parents, psychologists, doctors, leaders, priests - yes, anyone.
The topic "How to materialize thoughts" is included in the top 10 on various sites, often having nothing to do with psychology and self-development.
It is really difficult for a non-professional to understand the topic and fish out useful information from a billion extra letters.
I tried to do it for you.
How else, damn it, to materialize these thoughts ?
About a month ago, on public transport, I became an involuntary listener to a conversation between two friends.
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One girl quite loudly and emotionally told another that she was so tired of life's failures, lack of money and love, that she decided to sign up for a two-week psychological training.
The theme “Materialize your thoughts and then they will definitely come true” was the red line through all 10 lessons.
“I,” says the student of the courses, “wrote everything down. For half a year now I have been doing all the exercises every day, but things are still there."
A friend, of course, tried to console her, assuring her that everything would work out, and I thought about the fact that I had heard and read similar things more than once from people who seemed to be ready to change their lives, but something they couldn’t manage.
I don't know exactly what the problem of the girl from the minibus is (she was a bad coach or she just misuses his advice), but I think it's more likely everything is in the complex.
Psychologists, authors of articles sometimes do not quite accurately form advice on how to materialize their thoughts, and readers, not wanting to get to the bottom of the matter, simply adjust them to suit themselves.
As a result: the Universe simply cannot understand what you want from it!
What prevents us from materializing our thoughts?
In our world, there is an interesting category of people, quite numerous, by the way.
These men and women are not stupid, not lazy, ready to learn and even try something new. But for success, they always lack something: persistence, courage, riskiness.
It is only his thoughts that make a person unhappy or happy, not external circumstances. By controlling his thoughts, he controls his happiness.
Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche
They rarely get to the bottom of the problem and are more likely to prefer "a bird in hand than a pie in the sky." It is this category of people who complains more often than others: “Your psychological methods do not work! There I tried with my friend Vasya and - no success for you!"
Especially for them, I give 3 mistakes that they make in the desire to materialize their thoughts.
3 mistakes, why can't you materialize thoughts?
1. Wrong message
For example, your personal life does not work out.
And instead of signaling to the Universe, “I want to meet a good guy,” you complain every day: “I'm alone. This is so bad.
The Universe catches the word "lonely" from your whining and voila - your love life continues to lame on both legs.
2. Wrong attitude
Even doctors who recognize nothing but science confirm that those who sincerely believe that they will get rid of the disease have much more chances of recovering than pessimists.
If you really want something, then first of all convince yourself that everything will come true.
And then: “Oh, I'm such a skeptic. I only believe in what I can touch.
And why are my thoughts not materializing?"
3. Wrong wording
For some reason, in the store, you first consider the assortment of goods, and only then approach the saleswoman and say: "Give me a pound of shortbread cookies with condensed milk."
You do this because you know for sure that if you approach the seller with babbling: “I want something sweet, or maybe not very sweet, in general, I don’t know what I want”, then spend half an hour in the store and find certain death at the hands of other customers queuing up behind you.
And the Universe should deal with your incomprehensible babbling and instantly give what is needed?
5 practical tips on how to materialize your thoughts
We have sorted out the main mistakes that prevent people from achieving what they want, and now I want to teach you what to do in order to accurately materialize your thoughts:
1. Visualize desires
Nothing more effective than this technique has not yet been invented.
If you have a good imagination, then pictures of the future can be drawn right in your head.
For example, do you dream of a trip to Italy?
Imagine this very journey every day to the smallest detail. Before you have time to look back, you will buy the desired tour.
The technique of transferring your thoughts to paper works great: make a collage of desires, draw your dream, describe it using words in a diary, do at least something before you start whining that the Universe does not hear you!
2. Materialize your thoughts with the right phrases
Particles "not" are best avoided altogether, since it is poorly perceived by the Universe.
Instead of a message: "I don't want to get sick anymore," higher powers will hear that you really liked lying in bed with a sore throat.
It is correct to say: "I want to be always healthy!"
3. Get away from negativity
If you wish that your evil boss would break her leg and leave you alone, at least for the period of her sick leave, then the Universe, perhaps, will hear you.
But the consequences will be sad not only for your leader, but also for yourself.
Negativity and evil attract their own kind, there is such a boomerang law!
4. Do not control the fate of others
You can only materialize your own thoughts.
The universe will remain deaf to the calls: "I want my husband to find a high-paying job," "I want my mother to win the lottery."
Instead of making wishes for others, it is better to teach people close to you how to properly materialize your thoughts.
5. Dream about real
Fairy tales about Cinderellas who became princesses are, of course, charming and more than one generation of girls will grow up on them.
But only a few become princesses, and any woman who has made every effort can become rich and successful.
You can meditate on a three-story villa in Spain, but start fulfilling your dream by buying a one-room apartment in your city.
I recommend watching a small excerpt from the movie "Secret"
how to properly materialize your thoughts, so that they are fulfilled and not harm!
Learn and act!
I sincerely hope that after today's text, you will never again replenish the category of people who are endlessly whining: "How to materialize thoughts ?!"
This technique really works.
You will succeed, too, just any business needs to be done correctly.