There is a widespread belief that men love with their eyes and women with their ears. Not everything is so simple: a rare man will remain indifferent to the sound of a female voice, because this is the most magical instrument.
The great Marlene Dietrich once remarked: “If beautiful voices were sold in supermarkets, they would have found a lot of customers. It is a pity that they haven’t figured it out yet …”The great film star knew what she was talking about. She made men's hearts beat faster with one appearance on the screen.
The main instrument of seduction of the unsurpassed seductress was not an open body and a languid look, but her magic voice. Alas, nature has not endowed each of us with a beautiful voice, which, like the sounds of a magic flute, attracts crowds of fans. However, you can work on the voice: a skillfully chosen intonation, timbre, a certain rhythm, semantic pauses made to the place … And now the voice, like a magic magnet, envelops and attracts the attention of others.
A LITTLE BELOW, PLEASE
Psychologists are well aware that in order to gain confidence in oneself, one should speak in a lower tone. You've probably noticed that people intuitively lower their voices when it comes to intimate things. In addition, a low voice in women is usually associated with an increased content of testosterone - a sex hormone, respectively, the owner of a low "contralto" is perceived by others as a temperamental and sexy lady. The so-called chest voice has a special magical effect. The one that comes from the depths of the soul and goes straight to the heart of the interlocutor … Put your hand on your chest and try to sing any low note. Feel vibration in your chest? Practice periodically speaking in such a voice, singing, reciting poetry. After four to five weeks, you can easily switch to it in a conversation, if, of course, there is such a need.
CAPTURE TONE
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But do not forget: a deep, chesty, low voice and a hoarse, smoky voice are completely different concepts. The latter, instead of attracting a man, is more likely to cause antipathy. Because, communicating with a woman, he unconsciously considers her as the mother of his future children, and, as you know, a healthy girl is needed to continue the family. Those with a high voice were a little less fortunate. The thing is that too high a voice is perceived by the interlocutor as an alarm signal. In addition, a thin-voiced girl, as a rule, gives the impression of a very young person.
As a result, the man receives an unconscious message: “I am a child! You have to bear responsibility for me! " Agree, not everyone can do it. However, the owners of a high voice should not be upset - he is also attractive in his own way. The main thing is to avoid monotony: try to speak expressively, highlight significant words in intonation, periodically change the volume. Vocal specialists emphasize that the voice should be "based on the diaphragm." Try to always speak as if the sound of your voice originates at the level of your belly. Then after a while your voice will become bewitching.
WITHOUT FUNNY
The chest voice is characterized by relaxation and melodiousness - it is difficult to imagine that they can express themselves at a fast pace. Speak slowly, and a man will perceive you as a confident woman who knows her worth. But everything is good in moderation! If you speak too slowly, make Mkhatov pauses, then lull the interlocutor.
The ancient Greek philosopher wrote: "If you cannot speak, learn to listen!" And he was certainly right. Listen actively: ask your chosen one clarifying questions, nod from time to time, look into his eyes … While maintaining a conversation, speak delicately, imperceptibly copy the tone of his speech and his posture during the conversation. Repeat phrases such as, "I understand you," and you will "hook" the man.
USEFUL EXERCISES
There are a number of simple voice training exercises. Speak a few phrases into the recorder before starting your studies. After a couple of months of daily training, re-record and compare the sound of your own speech "before" and "after". There is no doubt that your voice will become more euphonious, inviting and sexy. That is, your personal magical instrument, which, like a fabulous magic flute, will attract love to you. So, let's begin?
First exercise
Stand in front of a mirror. Inhale, then draw on the sounds as you exhale. Each of them has a special property. Depending on what emotion you want to be filled with, what mood to convey to the chosen one, say:
✔ the sound "and" - improves mood, conveys your inner positive attitude to your partner;
✔ the sound "y" - makes the voice deeper, sexier, awakens in you and your beloved passion and tenderness;
✔ the sound "e" - awakens platonic love, brings partners closer;
✔ the sound "e" - develops sociability, helps to find a common language with the chosen one;
✔ the sound "o" - the main harmonizing sound, tunes a man and a woman on the same wavelength, helps them to become closer.
Second exercise
To give your voice strength and energy, say at least 3 minutes a day the words with the letter "r": role, ring, steering wheel, ruble, rhythm, rice and so on.
Third exercise
Read small chunks of text aloud daily. Be sure to stress your words clearly. Separate sentences with small pauses. Over time, your speech will become more sedate and euphonious. The melody of speech will appear - your personal mesmerizing music of an enchanting voice.
Mikhail Suvorov