If you can't handle raising a child, consider whether your son or daughter is indigo. And the rules by which you were brought up do not suit your child at all.
Superficial information about indigo children, which the Internet is clogged with, may create a not entirely correct picture of such children. They are not aliens or mutants, nor are they hunted by special services, although Indigo children are often credited with psychic abilities. The term "indigo" itself was introduced by the American psychologist Nancy Ann Tapp, who claims that she can see the aura of people. So the aura of such unusual children, according to the psychologist, is just indigo.
However, the opinions of scientists differ dramatically. Many people consider Indigo children a myth, others only admit the fact that the behavior of modern children is in many ways at odds with the established ideas about how the process of child development should proceed. It is believed that the emergence of indigo children indicates the next evolutionary round of humanity.
Not only psychologists and educators, but even astrologers are trying to find an explanation for the phenomenon of indigo. In particular, the Belarusian astrologer Nelly Potemkina-Guneva believes that the majority of children born now are indigo.
“They are rationality itself and sometimes they know the best way to do something, but others perceive it as breaking the rules,” says the astrologer. - When they see that your request or order is not reasoned, but based on emotions, they do not obey. Such children need not to be told that it is necessary, but to tell why it is necessary. If a child does not understand that this is reasonable, he will never agree to obey just because everyone lives by these rules."
The previous methods of upbringing do not work for indigo children: “They do not react to strict educational measures, punishments, threats. This is their nature, and we take it as an insult. It makes no sense to apply methods of education to them, which are based on violence. This is the same as deliberately raising an enemy in your family who, no matter what, will do everything his own way."
What to do with such children? Nelly Potemkina-Guneva emphasizes: “Indigo children are closer to the era of Aquarius, which began in 2003 according to the Avestan calendar. It really makes sense to listen to them, because the future belongs to them, and not to us. I would like to draw your attention to the fact that parents live in the future of their children, not children in the future of their parents. Thus, it makes sense for parents to always listen to their children, and not live based on the opinion that parents are right because of their age and life experience."
Indigo children have no absolute authority. They do not consider it necessary to explain their actions and rely on freedom of choice, while being able to make the right decisions, relying only on intuition. They clearly know what they want.
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The astrologer said that indigo children, despite the fact that their emotionality is not as developed as the mind, are very good friends, but only as much as they are interested in. “As soon as they feel uncomfortable in a certain space, when they start to press very hard, they leave without saying goodbye,” she said.
Each of us, she says, in the age of Aquarius must take care of our well-being and development ourselves. If this does not happen, then indigo children will be very difficult to get to take care of us in the future.
If we try to understand as much as possible, accept children today, do not interfere with them on their way, they will gladly at the right time answer us with good according to their understanding and take care of their own motivation, and not because it is so accepted. The main thing, says N. Potemkina-Guneva, is not to create for children the feeling of a cage and a closed space.
Surprisingly, our children can be so different that now, in an era of changes and changes of centuries, millennia, eras, we can seem to them as aliens. The astrologer believes that indigo children can create not just other traditions, but even a new faith and a new world. It is not necessary to break the desire for this, it is dangerous, the astrologer emphasizes.
In order for children and parents to understand each other, she recommends a simple method - negotiation. “It is necessary to learn to negotiate with children, learn to be friends with them. Whatever happens now, you need to understand that we will leave before them, and the world will belong to indigo children,”said the astrologer.
Elena SPASYUK