I think that none of the esotericists need to be convinced that there is reincarnation, and that each of us has had many incarnations on Earth. Even those who are not earthly souls, those who came here from the stars and for various reasons began to incarnate on the earthly plane, had a lot of earthly incarnations. The incarnations of earthly souls can number in the hundreds and even thousands. Star souls have had much less earthly lives, sometimes 30-40, and recently more and more people come to my consultations who have only a few earthly incarnations, 2 or 3. As a rule, it is very difficult for such people to adapt to life, they feel themselves here are uncomfortable, it is difficult for them to find themselves, to integrate into society, to establish harmonious relations with others.
But today we are not talking about them, but about those who have a lot of earthly incarnations. This applies to both earthly souls and stellar souls, because stellar souls, once on the earthly plane, almost always forgot their infinite nature, fell into the wheel of reincarnation and were forced to acquire qualities just like earthly souls, and go through many lessons on Earth.
In principle, stellar souls, if they have already reached a level where the memory of past incarnations became available to them, can also remember how they ended up on Earth. And quite often these will be very strange and even sad stories.
Now each of us is the quintessence of all our past earthly incarnations. Everything that we have - all the qualities that we can be proud of, were developed in the past. In this incarnation, we develop these qualities and work on new tasks. We are used to hearing that a person is similar to his parents, but most of all we are not similar to them, but to ourselves in past incarnations. Our very spiritual awakening in this life is the result of our spiritual achievements in the past. Whenever we awakened spiritually - someone earlier, almost in youth, someone later, already in adulthood - we had the potential for this, inherent in past lives. And very often people who awakened only some 3-4 years ago develop at such a pace that they move much faster than those who awakened 12-15 years ago. It depends on whetherwhat level the soul has reached in its past lives.
But not only all the best in us is the result of our past incarnations. We also brought from the past all our negative qualities, all that we do not love in ourselves, do not accept, that prevents us from living. This is also a reflection of our past lives. Some believe that the psychological problems faced by a person have their roots in childhood. In most cases, this is not the case. Almost always the traumatic situations of childhood and the problems resulting from them are caused by events from other times and incarnations.
Experience confirms that the “sacred wound” about which so much is spoken about has its roots in past lives, and not in childhood. It often runs like a red thread through several incarnations. In this life, often in childhood or adolescence, some events activate it, and a person then encounters its manifestations many times throughout his life until he works out its causes from past incarnations.
If, for example, a person had low self-esteem in past lives, or, conversely, an exaggerated ego, now this is also present, and, despite the fact that he is working on himself and developing his consciousness, it does not go away so easily. At a conscious level, a person seems to understand everything, but all the same deep inside him all these qualities sit, which are often developed not in one, but in several incarnations, and therefore it can be very difficult to get rid of them. Consciously, we can work only the upper part of the iceberg, only what is at the so-called basic level, at the level of the current incarnation, and in order to work deeply (and our past incarnations are in our subconscious), special work is needed, and it is quite complicated. This is work with past lives.
I repeat: all the qualities that hinder us, if they are sufficiently expressed in us and do not just go away, come from past incarnations - all fears, phobias, laziness, selfishness, rejection, irritability, low self-esteem, a wrong attitude to money, inability to build relationships with the opposite sex, etc. - we brought all this from the past, and now these qualities hang on us like weights, hindering development, creating obstacles and problematic situations, preventing us from moving through life and having joy, happiness and harmonious relationships with others.
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Every day, in individual lessons, I work with people on the problems of past incarnations. And very often any quality with which we work, be it low self-esteem or problems with the opposite sex, is revealed from different sides in not one, but several incarnations at once. For example, a woman has low self-esteem. In one of the incarnations, her source was the situation with her lover, who cruelly treated her feelings, in another incarnation she was a man who committed murder through negligence, who then for the rest of her life could not forgive herself for this, in the third incarnation she was a scientist who was ahead of his time, he was the author of many discoveries, but was not recognized by his contemporaries, and he had an internal breakdown, etc. That is, in each of the incarnations, one certain facet is revealed,which in the end created persistent self-doubt and low self-esteem in the current life. As a rule, in the current incarnation this quality is activated in some situations, and it can be very difficult to cope with it. And it is activated in exactly the same way - in relationships with men, professionally, etc. But when we work with past lives, a person realizes where his problem originates from, how it is then illuminated from different sides, and with the help of a certain work of consciousness we work through the level of past incarnations, and everything begins to change in the current life. And a person begins to realize his own worth, he gains confidence in his abilities, and his life changes. It is very joyful to see how the shoulders are straightened, a sparkle in the eyes and a confident smile appear. And from the consciousness "I am a loser" a person comes to the consciousness "I am the creator of my life." After all, we are actually the creators of our lives - with all our thoughts we create our own world, whatever it may be - gloomy and dreary, or joyful and light. And what we have created in the past with our own thoughts and actions, we can correct now and create our beautiful present and future.
Some sources advise rewriting past lives, replacing true memories with pseudo-memories. However, this must be done very, very carefully, otherwise, instead of benefit, harm can be done. Those healers who have long and seriously worked with past lives already know that a simple mechanical rewriting of the past does nothing, and sometimes even exacerbates problems. For example: on this path, a person is waiting for an ambush, where he is seriously injured. It means that it is necessary that he went on a different path, and thus he can avoid an ambush. Such rewriting will not have any effect, because in another place and at another time, approximately the same thing will happen to a person that he thus avoided. Here we need a completely different, more serious approach to the topic of changing the past. Dilettantism is bad in any area, and you need to learn to act only for good, and not harm.
This applies to all aspects of working with past lives, including working with relationship karma. All our close people, relatives and friends are those with whom we met in the past. And of course, now we are attracted also not by chance. As a rule, these are our karmic connections, especially with the closest relatives - parents, husbands, wives, brothers, sisters and children. You can, of course, like some who put on rose-colored glasses and believe that karma no longer exists, deny any karmic connections. But, as they say, ignorance of the laws does not exempt you from responsibility, and if you do not deal with your own karma, then karma will take care of you. This rule is. And it's better to work with karma than to deal with difficult situations later.
There are people who, for many years, have not been able to settle their relations with loved ones, with their parents. Often, women don't get along with their mothers.
In New Age circles, the following belief can be traced: your parents are to blame for everything, they raised you incorrectly, they limited, belittled you, etc. Yes, of course, this happens, because the parents of many of us are ordinary people with their own very different qualities. But why blame them for anything? Why not understand that the parents are innocent? They are what they are, they are people of a different generation, and the eternal conflict of fathers and children has not escaped us either. They were born and lived in another country that does not exist now, they, through no fault of their own, absorbed many of the limiting beliefs cultivated in that country and its state system. And first of all, they need to be accepted as they are. And to understand that they lived and acted this way and only this way, because they could not do otherwise at their level of consciousness. Every person, including you and me, does this,as it considers the best at every moment.
And you need to thank them for the gift of life, for all the lessons learned together that have contributed to the piggy bank of your wisdom, and establish harmonious relations with them.
Sometimes people try to impose their views on their loved ones. Just like parents in childhood, now they themselves are trying to "educate" their parents, to prove that they are wrong, to obsessively convert them to their faith. The result is incessant conflicts. You don't need to prove anything to anyone. We cannot change others, we can only change ourselves. A person will never understand you and will not believe you if what you are talking about did not become his experience. You can fight in conflicts all your life and still not understand that only when a person himself realizes that you are right, when he himself, from his own experience, is convinced of something, he will understand and believe you. Without this, it is useless to seek understanding. You will only waste your energy. But, oddly enough, many continue to fight with their relatives and do not understand that they react not only to words and deeds,but also on the internal energy that is in a person. And this inner energy of rejection (despite the fact that you can say nice words at the same time) creates conflicts. The energy of rejection, the energy of resentment that accumulates in a person in relation to another, creates conflicts, and until it is worked out, conflicts will arise.
Very often, this energy of rejection has a source in past incarnations. This energy is actually that karmic record that attracted two people. It is in one and the other. And it is she who makes them throw themselves at each other both literally and figuratively. But the meeting did not happen by chance, but in order to neutralize karma. And in order to resolve the problematic relationship, it is most effective to consciously work with past lives, then the karmic records are deleted. When we do such work in individual lessons on the problems of past incarnations, the relationship in real life changes. People talk about their feelings like this: "One feels that it has become easier, as if a mountain has fallen off their shoulders, it is even easier to breathe."
This is real, because when we remove negative energies from our energy system, then, naturally, it clears up and becomes easier, consciousness changes, karma is neutralized.
This also applies to relations with those who are next to us, and with those who are no longer in this world. Karmic relationships with loved ones who have left can also be worked out.
Karma between two people can be activated at different times and for reasons not clear at first glance. For example, two people communicated, did not conflict, respected each other, or even were friends. And then suddenly, at one point, one of them activates karmic memory, and a war begins. This also happens with partners who have never had any conflicts.
Karmic relationships can sometimes be activated in the most unexpected way: for example, you are walking down the street, and a stranger is walking towards you. He slightly touches you, and literally throws you up. In another similar case, you would not have paid any attention to him at all, but here for some reason you start to get indignant, and he also does not remain in debt, and your verbal skirmish attracts the attention of everyone around you. You, before this completely calm, lose your temper for an incomprehensible reason. But this is not surprising: both you and this stranger have an energy / karmic record inside that has just been activated when you just touched each other. Or looked at each other. You may not calm down for a long time after this incident and wonder at yourself and your incontinence, but the reason for this is not your incontinence,and the energy is a karmic record.
If a person for a long time, despite all his efforts, cannot build relationships with someone from relatives, colleagues or just acquaintances, then this, as a rule, is the complex karma of past incarnations. And everyone with whom we have a karmic relationship carries a message for us, with each we work out a certain lesson. These are our teachers, these are the engines of our development, and we should be grateful to them for this.
It is very easy, of course, just to get away from such a problematic relationship, to part and forget. This is the easiest way out, and, unfortunately, some New Age sources advise you to do just that: if you are uncomfortable with any relationship, just break it off. Yes, this is the easiest, and many do so. But without understanding why they are uncomfortable, without realizing WHAT we are working with this person, without neutralizing karma and learning the lesson, such a separation will not remove the problem. Karma with this person will remain unsettled and will be transferred to the next incarnation, the message that he carries will not be deciphered, and the lesson will not be passed. And in the near future, another person from a past life will be attracted with the same message and with the same lesson, and everything will start all over again. Many people all their life do nothing butthat they run away from their lessons and step on the same rake.
If a person soberly looks at himself, his qualities, his karmic connections, and seriously works with emerging problems, relationships and situations, then, as a rule, his efforts are rewarded, and life is more happy, joyful, comfortable and harmonious.
Author: Metta (Galina Vetrova)