Love is a bright and wonderful feeling, praised for centuries in any works of art. This still unexplained phenomenon has repeatedly received the broadest coverage in romance novels, paintings, movies and even music. This feeling has always been with us, from the very beginning of human development and was the basis for the formation of small social cells, which, of course, greatly contributed to survival. This was the only way to survive and the primitive rules of love were very trivial. A man in a primitive family was the head and performed the functions of a hunter and a warrior, a woman, on the contrary, was the keeper of the hearth, because in those days, the burning of a fire had to be maintained for months. It was a vital necessity. Even such an archaic form of love greatly distinguished the representative of the Homo sapiens species from animals that simply did not know how to love. In other words, love is not an instinct. This is an acquired form of attachment to a person. That was the case then, but have there been many changes since that time?
Epochs changed one after another, and man evolved. Together with us, our ideas about the world order also developed. Gradually, love grew from a phenomenon necessary for survival into a formal feeling. But here's the problem, in nature there are no objective reasons for falling in love. For procreation, it is not at all necessary to love someone or create a family, which means that love is not provided for by earthly nature. Moreover, according to modern research by genetic scientists, love is dangerous for our species, because this is how we are forced to create families.
It is customary for many peoples to love only representatives of their people, and over the centuries, people have so many common genes that every 7th marriage is closely related from a genetic point of view. This contributes to incest and the emergence of generations with minor genetic errors, which in turn threatens us with global extinction. It turns out that love is unnecessary and even dangerous. This feeling, unusual for other inhabitants of the Earth, is one of the most significant evidence of the alien origin of the human race. True love could be useful only at the initial stage of the formation of civilization, but with its development it inevitably becomes a hindrance.
It so happened that people in love cannot control themselves and, under the influence of hormones, perform such actions that they would never have dared to do before. In order to understand well the negative aspects of love, you need to remember how many talented people, namely great writers, poets and artists, were killed in a duel simply because the duelists could not share a life partner. Talented athletes, striving to prove to their beloved the sincerity of love, decided on dangerous stunts and died. Enterprising adventurers set off on expeditions around the world in flotillas and disappeared without a trace. In addition, many bloody wars began thanks to love. Is this the normal order of things for a civilization that positions itself as reasonable? Reason presupposes pragmaticrational and balanced view of the world with a minimum amount of emotions. Humanity was in such an unstable state until the beginning of the 21st century.
The modern world has changed a lot, even compared to the middle of the previous century. Every person in developed countries has received a wide list of rights and freedoms, discrimination on the basis of race and gender inequality has almost completely disappeared. Moreover, according to modern estimates, most of the world's population is women.
This dramatic overweight was the result of two world wars in which tens of millions of men died. In our time, women have become much more independent and gradually come to completely new worldview principles. Most of the girls have not positioned themselves as hearth keepers for a long time, on the contrary, the number of so-called business women is steadily growing. Women began to occupy government positions on an equal basis with men, and in some countries even to head those ministries that from time immemorial were male specialties.
But despite the fact that in the modern world this is considered to be an achievement and, in general, a good result, in practice it is bad. Genetically, women are not disposed to government, and even more so to military affairs. In those countries where a woman holds the post of defense minister, there have long been no combat-ready armies. The strengthening of the role of women's independence, the growing popularity of feminism and other social and political processes led to the emergence of new rules of love. A new principle has been formed - there is no love without money.
In modern love there is practically nothing left of feelings. A tradition imposed from outside, forcing men to constantly make expensive gifts and give their wives their wages, only led to increased discontent. The business that produces goods for couples in love is one of the most profitable, because there is always a demand for even the most unnecessary gift toys. Today, almost no girl will marry someone who is not able to regularly give smartphones and fur coats from expensive brands. Money in society began to be valued much more than any feelings. Now love is business as usual. Girls are looking not for those who love them and whom they will love, but for those who are able to support them.
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The degree of hatred for each other that has appeared in modern families cannot be noticed by an ordinary person, but any divorce lawyer will say that love does not exist. Even the most loving people, during a divorce, show their true feelings, while trying to take away from their spouse as much valuable property as possible. In developed countries, some girls have made it their own business. The new rules of love dictate the need to build relationships solely on money, thereby forming a society of ideal consumption.
This process cannot be stopped. Sooner or later, it will inevitably lead to the complete destruction of such a social institution as the family. The propaganda of global manufacturers of “branded” clothing and jewelry will form commercial families until there is no room for the senses. Love is one of the most important human qualities that can be changed as a person is educated. Forming the world consumer society, new rules of love are being created.