The topic of goal setting, visualizations, affirmations, intention formation and other techniques for fulfilling desires is a very popular thing these days, especially among self-developing youth. I want to share some thoughts on this.
All of this actually works. Made up and performed. Strongly want something, invest in desire energetically - it will come, one day it will definitely come, do not hesitate. Moreover, if you strongly DO NOT want something or are afraid, it will come too, do not hesitate:))))
The space is designed so that it strives for balance all the time. Any strong desire / reluctance is tension. Tension is stress, and the Universe lovingly seeks to protect us from them. How to relieve a person from stress? In two ways - either to give what he wants (a satisfied need frees him from desire, we know), or to lead him through what he DOES NOT want (so that they understand that everything can be experienced in life, and freed from fear).
If you don't give what you really want, it's also a normal option. You can die of happiness from an excess of feelings, if you receive it. Calm down a little, and everything will come;) Or not. There is actually no difference:) I explain.
My humble experience in all these "Wishlist" practices led me to the conclusion that learning NOT to DESIRE is a great happiness. Once you just get very tired of doing everything you wanted:)))) Because all your intentions begin to be actively fulfilled when the level of awareness has increased, you have reached a certain energy level, and then hold on - EVERYTHING will come !!!
Life frees you from all stress:)))) All you wanted - get it, sign. And no one cares that you have long outgrown these desires, five or ten years have passed, but they all continue to come true. And everything that they did not want (they actively denied, condemned in other people) also comes.
What were you afraid of there? Were you afraid that your loved one would leave? So it will go away))) You can't live next to your loved ones in paranoid fear. It will leave so that you understand that your happiness does not depend on another person. And unhappiness, by the way, too. People on your way only help to free yourself from internal clues. But if you don't hold, you will begin to love him / her from a state of inner freedom and with gratitude that allows you to share your warmth with him / her, it will not go away. You will chase away, and the person will say: “No, look for fools elsewhere, I’m with you until the end of my days”:))) Because it is important for every person to be appreciated, loved, accepted and allowed to be himself. You don't have to put your loved one in a cage. The bird must fly.
What was condemned? Connections with married / married people?) Yeah) Get it - sign. Why does life lead us through situations in which we have judged other people? I think that we all come back from heaven to earth and understand that everyone has their own lessons, that everyone makes mistakes - this is a part of life. Look after yourself and not others, get your own lessons, pull your logs out of your eyes, allow others to be different and get their own experience. That's all.
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What else do you think? Never change? Never steal? Never lie? Never get angry? Never hit? Never get a divorce? Never try drugs? I would recommend never say never. We don't know ourselves. And we don't know how we will behave in a certain situation until we get into it. Don't think that you are a saint. If you choose not to know your shadow, this does not mean that you do not have it in you. There is enough dirt in each of us, even in the brightest person.
It may not be visible to you from the outside, and any honest person knows both his pros and cons. Move deeply into yourself, and love for people will surely come. One day you will stop judging others, because you will realize that you yourself are the same. Absolutely the same person as the other six billion (or how many of us are already there). Each person has his own path, each has his own lessons, his own destiny. Take care of yourself, the rest will be looked after by God / Life / Universal service of “looking after other people”:) We do not judge what is right and what is not.
And so you want something, then you get it. You keep growing, you look at this fulfilled desire and think: what is this and why do I need this at all? Well, didn't you have that? Remember, everyone had this. They wanted-wanted a new phone, could not sleep well, bought it and think: ok, and now what? At first you are delighted with the chosen one, and then it seems like it starts to pull on others. Or you were so upset that someone left you, and after a few years you realize that it’s for the best. You buy another expensive piece of clothing or interior item, but there is no longer any satisfaction. From any external desire one day you no longer receive any pleasure.
You know, I used to love all sorts of delicious things so much, but now I go to a grocery store with 10 thousand rubles and cannot spend them. I have nothing to spend them on. I buy apples in a tent next to the house so that they have a smell, real. A kilogram costs 36-60 rubles. Tangerines for 80 rubles. Well, sometimes persimmons or something like that. From time to time I take cheese or something, but that's all tasteless. The addiction to food just passed. If I'm busy all day, I can only remember by three in the morning that I haven't eaten anything yet. And if I go to the kitchen, I often just take food, just because I have nothing to do, and I realize it. I don't want to eat, but out of habit I take an apple or carrot or nuts. I mean, I eat, but the body needs much less food than it seems.
It's the same with clothes. I gave away almost everything I had. Both clothes and jewelry. I'm buying something for myself now, but I have no fanaticism for clothes. It doesn't add any value to me. I just want beauty, but not brands, not promoted brands. A dress can cost at least a thousand or twenty, it makes no difference to me. I like if I decide what I want, I'll take it, but I don't need a lot of clothes. If earlier leather things were some kind of quality standard, now for me leather is a gutted living being. Leather belt is a piece of a slain calf or pig. Or someone else. Now I choose products that are not made of leather (something old is still leather, but I will replace it over time). I'm not a fan of vegetarianism or anything else, and never have been, I just can't help myself. Expansion of consciousness gives liberation from human stupidity,do you understand? You suddenly start to see things as they are.
In the summer I was at my mother's dacha (in the Oryol region), walked a lot, walked. Once I was walking to the dacha past the municipal market, and there was a little dog running around. And suddenly another came up to her and bit her paw. The little one whined like that, and I don't know what happened to me. Tears just flowed from my eyes, by the way, and now I sit roaring as I write this. At that moment I had the feeling that it was me - that little dog, and it hurt me a lot. It is not as usual: I saw that someone was in pain, I regretted it intellectually, no, it was different. It was as if I connected with all this space, felt how all living beings are connected to each other.
Our desires are foolishness. Great human stupidity. What do you want, sausages? Think what a sausage is. If a small child is told that he is eating a piece of a dead cow or chicken, he will not even touch it. But from all sides they tell you that you will die without meat, children are stuffed from birth with something incomprehensible, and they believe that it should be so. I don't argue with anyone, I just go my own way and share it with those who have a request to read me or listen. That's all. I have no goal to save someone or to prove something. My life is enough for me to fill my personal space:)
So, when you go into yourself and go deep, one day you just find that you do not know what you need. You don't know who you need. You don't know where you'd better be. Apparently, this is exactly what every person in a highly spiritual society should have from childhood. In the religious beliefs of all denominations, this is precisely what is called "Lord, not mine - your Will." When you just trust life, trust God or whoever you believe in, trust to behave. You are always in the best conditions for the growth of your soul. Just take it.
Calm down in your desires. All that you can control is yourself. Any goals can only be related to your personal development. Develop, and everything you need will definitely come. And a car, and an apartment, and a house, and a loved one. Do the best you can. Show your inner beauty. Worry about how to give more, not how to receive more. That's all. You don't fill your inner void with the outer.
I am thirty, and perhaps in material terms I am a little behind my peers, but believe me, now I will fill this gap very quickly:) A good spiritual base gives unshakable stability, gives solidity, makes it possible to go very deeply into the material and not be afraid of losing myself … When you get up on your feet internally, you can do the outside. What do I feel now?) That I am leaving the runway:) And the time comes to take off;) If life wants it that way. I am ready to serve her. I am at her disposal. That's all.
Do you want great material success? Focus primarily on preparing for it, otherwise the money will destroy you. Wealth is always a magnifying glass, a reflection of the inner world. Do you want a happy family life? Become a happy person yourself first in order to wish to share happiness with your loved ones, with your partner and children. Be willing to be a good person first. All affirmations, all goal-setting must begin with this, do you understand?
Write a tremendous message to life: "Dear life, please help me to find the most precious gifts within myself that I can share with others." That's all your Wishlist. Take care of yourself. In big letters on the wall, write the question: "Dear Universe, how can I serve you?" And listen to the answer. He will come. Required.
No need to cry because someone does not love you the way you would like. Learn to love yourself. Don't wait for inspiration, inspire yourself. Give it yourself. Become aware of your desires. You don't know how your life should turn out. Do not resist its flow. What is needed will definitely come. The one who is needed will definitely appear. Become yourself who is needed. Become yourself one who is worthy of the beautiful world around. That's the whole secret of prosperity.
All love, miracles and goodness:)
Dina Richards
