Your success and health depend on who you communicate with. This has been noticed and proven long ago. And a kind, good person often has so-so surroundings. Let's face it, a kind person has a toxic environment. After all, he tries to help everyone, listen to and support everyone, share the latest … And he believes that he has a beneficial effect on other people, helping them become better, kinder, brighter …
But over time, such an environment devours the energy of a good person. There are more and more problem people. A good, kind, bright person is one. And constant contact with a toxic environment changes a kind person for the worse. Or he himself becomes unkind, cynical, cold. Or it is destroyed by the negative influence of losers or criminals, sick or unfortunate, stupid or cruel. We interact with those around us and inevitably change.
It all depends on concentration. From proportion. How closely you communicate with disadvantaged people. And on how many of them are in your immediate environment. Maybe you already only communicate with them? Toxic people are gradually replacing the positive and "positively charged." They surround you more and more closely, they come closer …
Cranberries in sugar - I bought such a treat for friends. But she did not give it back in time; there was no case. And then the sweets went bad, very strange: dried cranberry skins remained in the sugar shell instead of juicy berries. It's osmosis, that's what it is. Aggressive and concentrated sugar pulled all the juices out of the berries. That's what a bad environment is. This is how fools and rude people, chronic losers, whiners, eternal sick people who actively complain, influence us in great concentration. It is active and aggressive.
And all the dreams that one wonderful or talented person will have a positive effect on undeveloped, rude people - all these beautiful-hearted dreams disappear at the sight of a shriveled dry berry - that is what remains inside the shell. And the sugar just turned slightly pink and became hard as a stone. He sucked all the juices out of the berry … You can communicate with the evil and stupid for a short time. And then the same thing will certainly happen - a shriveled peel will remain of us. And they will turn pink and become even harder … This is what osmosis is. This is how it works. And one should not linger among aggressive strangers, and be too gentle with them - there is chemistry in human relations as well.
If you had to communicate with negative or unhappy people, you need to "dilute" the communication. And spend the same amount of time communicating with the kind and smart; to communicate with art or nature. Otherwise, the forces will go away, and it will be impossible to break out of the environment. As in a war, when the people around are squeezing the ring tighter and tighter …
Anna Kiryanova
