First of all, you need to know what you want. And that's a problem! Many people don't really know what they want to do with their life. But, nevertheless, they are very active. Take a look at your life. Many students go to university without the slightest idea why they are there at all. They go with the flow to find out where they will swim and what to do next. They don't know what their ideal life will look like.
Conversely, people who know what they want in life see the world differently. Our brains are constantly filtering an incomprehensible amount of incoming information: smells, sounds, visual effects, etc. Most of this information is discarded, and our attention is focused on what is interesting and priority for us. Thus, some people notice only the bad, while others see the good in everything.
Therefore, when you decide on what you want, it is like, say, buying a new car. You start to see her everywhere! What do you personally see everywhere? This is perhaps the clearest reflection of your conscious aspiration.
When you concentrate on something, magical things begin to happen
Wherever you want to go, there is a long but common path, and there are also shorter and less traditional approaches. The usual way is the result without much attention. This is what happens when you let other people dictate your direction and speed in life.
However, once you understand what you want, it triggers your special attention and you start to notice simpler solutions to your questions. What takes 10 years for the usual journey can take only a couple of months from you, of course, with the right information and your attitude.
When an idea or thought takes over your mind, you will do everything in your power to see, feel and realize it. Thus, in a couple of months you are quite capable of accomplishing the impossible and doing what would take you several years. Simply because we always limit ourselves. Including in our dreams and aspirations. We want something, but then we give ourselves the instruction that this is probably impossible … well, or not in the near future. Remember that only your thinking and desires determine how willing you are to play and win.
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When you know exactly what you want, you instantly grasp opportunities that most people don't even know about. You have the courage to seize these opportunities without delay. And you will understand exactly when to say "yes" and when "no".
The right opportunities appear when you have already clearly defined your ultimate goal, and in the most magical way, “mentors” will appear around you, showing you the fastest way.
When the student is ready, then the teacher will appear
And one more thing: never ask for advice. Or rather, never ask for advice from the person with whom you absolutely do not want to change places.
“When you make a decision, the Universe will meet you halfway and make it happen.” Absolute truth. And you can filter out endless outside noise to focus your efforts on what you need. After all, don't you like being a designer in your own life?