There are various types of energetic interactions between people. Let's call them something like this:
- equivalent exchange
- pulling energy onto yourself
- the ability to be a source of energy
- neutral position.
Now let's try now to analyze in more detail all four types of energy interaction between people.
Equivalent exchange
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Equal exchange usually exists between close people with good understanding and favorable relations. Such an exchange occurs in cases where the hermetic principle of the correspondence of people to each other is observed.
If it's at work, then people are great partners, they don't need a lot of words to explain the essence of the matter to each other. They do not quarrel over the primacy or the amount of remuneration, since they exchange exactly the impulses that the partner needs, therefore they are able to agree on any issue. Equivalent energy exchange is easy to fix.
For example, two people do not get tired of each other, do not interfere with each other, at one point they start and finish work, almost without saying a word. Married couples with an equal energy exchange usually look like a model of ideal well-being. Not so often, but even today there are such harmonious families where benevolence and a sensitive attitude of spouses to each other reign. Of course, all sorts of vicissitudes happen in them, but still the balance is maintained in any adversity.
But it sometimes happens that an equivalent exchange of spouses is invisible to others, and then they can give a strange impression. It seems that one of the spouses goes literally on
about another, but this impression is almost always deceptive. Such families are like closed systems, well-oiled internal mechanisms that live regardless of external circumstances. At the same time, spouses may quarrel endlessly, or they may practically not notice each other. (So it seems from the outside.) But if an important issue is being solved for them, one glance is enough for them to understand the consent or disagreement of the partner. Spouses with equal energy exchange never make decisions without consulting their “half”, although this “advice” will be either incomprehensible or imperceptible to outsiders.
In the spring, manure is brought to the dachas from the state farm. The car drives up to the site. The driver offers the goods. A man and a woman think for a while, silently looked, appreciated. She turned around and walked, loudly talking about bad people who profit from the needs of summer residents. The driver frowned and wanted to leave. The man said, "Load there." It is a mystery to the driver how the couple agreed. Was he a domestic scandal? And after a few minutes they calmly pulled the manure across the potato field, the woman talked loudly about what good manure they bought.
Married couples with equal exchange are long-livers. Their energetic integrity is the key to good luck and well-being.
Equal energy exchange between friends and neighbors is characterized by absolute unobtrusiveness and trouble-free mutual assistance and support.
Energy Vampirism
We have already mentioned people - vampires, telling you endlessly about their misfortunes and problems. Usually, such people initially cause sympathy in you, and then a dull irritation appears, which later turns into a desperate state, which can be expressed in one word: "Run!" Desirable further, out of sight.
If in friendly, neighborly and office relationships it is still possible to somehow adapt to the “vampires”, trying not to “feed” them and not waste energy, then in a marriage cohabitation is almost unbearable for the “donor”. Moreover, a "vampire" can have an equivalent exchange with other people and only from one particular person can pull energy onto himself.
A donor spouse who constantly "feeds" a vampire spouse may gradually become a "vampire" in relation to other people: colleagues, friends, or their own children. Or, being irritated by the loss of strength, he begins to make scandals, which ultimately lead to divorce. But this is the best option. The worst - when the donor spouse, unable to resist the pressure of the "vampire", begins to hurt, wither and may even die at a young age.
An intelligent family - a husband, a candidate of sciences, a great clever at work, a diligent worker who provides for the family, quietly terrorizes his wife, a medical worker, a woman talented in many areas, passionate about foreign languages and the history of the city. Terror is expressed in the fact that the spouse is constantly unhappy with everything. He established an order when, by his arrival, the house should be perfectly clean and a hot dinner should be on the table. Having crossed the threshold of the house, he goes around the apartment and checks if everything is perfect. Sitting down at the table, he finds fault with the fork, laid crookedly, with tea that is not hot enough, with the smell of the kitchen, which could be blown away by his arrival. Once, having come home, after standing for three seconds in the hallway, he turned around and left the house for the whole night without saying a word. The reason for his resentment was that he did not see his slippers in the hallway,they were visiting a friend of his wife.
The woman was engaged in her hobbies secretly when her husband was not at home. Several times she tried to get away from her despot. But the surrounding people and relatives did not understand her, they considered her capricious: after all, the husband is courteous and well-mannered, pleasant in communication, perfectly provides for the family, and that there are quarrels, so whoever does not have them. And the husband, like a true "vampire", cried and persuaded her to return, since he "cannot live without her." The end is sad and even terrible. At 42, a blooming beautiful woman suddenly feels unwell and in a few months she burns out from oncology. The stress associated with constant loss of strength causes fatal illness.
Pulling energy onto oneself can also be positive. There are people to whom everyone wants to "cry in a vest." Often such people become professional psychologists, teachers, doctors. They tend to pull negative energy onto themselves, process it and release it into the purified space. They, of course, are not "vampires", their karma is the duty to cleanse the psychic space of the planet. Such people should understand that the ability to purify the souls of other people was given to them not for enrichment, but as a means of working off their solid karma. There is nothing to be proud of here.
Now there are much more such people than at all other times. This indicates that the planet needs urgent cleaning, so as not to perish, suffocating in the negative energy of people.
Sometimes a mother who desperately wants to help her sick child manages to take upon herself his pain, his suffering. To pull on all the negative that was due by fate to her beloved man. The intensity of her selflessness is so high that everything bad instantly "burns out" in the flame of such energy. In this case, the mother does not just help her child, she helps him to overcome his own karma.
Mother and child have a special energetic relationship. A mother has the right and the opportunity to help her child in absolutely everything (even in overcoming his own karma), it is important that between them there is a close connection of spiritual kinship and love. The mother for the child is the conductor of cosmic energy, and the father is the conductor of earthly energy. Therefore, when there is no motherly love, we lose heaven, when there is no father's authority, we feel insecure in human society.
People are sources of energy
For the one who seeks to bestow others, does it unselfishly and at the same time receives joy, seeing the joy of others, a source of energy of the Higher powers opens up. Therefore, there is no need to be afraid to be a “donor”.
It is important that donation is conscious, corresponding to the level of development of your soul energy. Otherwise, you will burn out in other people's problems, not solving your own.
And of course, it is important that the "feeding" goes "as intended", that is, benefits the soul of the conditional "vampire". If you endlessly feed someone, trying to help, and the person only gladly “eats” your “tasty” energy and is not going to change something in his life himself, then you are not doing him any good. You aggravate his karma by taking someone else's burden on your shoulders. Your energy is going wrong. This means that your karma also suffers.
Not all people have the ability to be a source of energy for others.
The harder a person's karma, the more important it is for him to learn to give. Unselfishly, without backward thoughts, giving something to people, a person acquires immeasurably more - the ability of the soul to absorb the energy of the Cosmos, the energy of high vibrations of space, so he becomes stronger, develops his spirit. But that doesn't mean being a source of energy.
To do something and to give is the whole meaning of our life. If, by giving, we have grown the energy of the spirit for new travels in the Universe, it means that our life has not been lived in vain.
To accumulate, acquire, preserve, comprehend - this is the first half of our earthly task. It is on her that we focus on our misunderstanding and childhood underdevelopment. And the only winner is the one who, accumulating, thinks where he will give it. By giving, he solves the second, most important for the soul, half of the problem. Giving, the soul rejoices, expands, becomes larger. Leaving the earthly plane, she will be able to let in the vast outer space of unearthly happiness.
Here are two entrepreneurs. One has a goal - the pocket must be full, no matter why. The other thinks about the rich and prosperous life of the family, society, wants to produce beautiful, high-quality goods that everyone needs. With an equal amount of initial energy and a desire to work, the first will quickly exhaust its energy capabilities, the second, investing and giving, will increase his energy every time he sees the usefulness of his work.
The woman wants to buy expensive cosmetics. What does the return have to do with it? A woman watches her appearance, strives to be attractive - in these minutes and hours she accumulates energy, which she then uses. Where? It depends on her inner deep desires. If she wishes to give the joy of delight and admiration to one person, she "accidentally" gives gifts to all the people around her. It shines like the sun, gives warmth, gives off, and therefore acquires at this moment the ability to be a conductor of cosmic energy to the souls of people. A direct communication channel is established between the person who gives and the infinite energy of the universe, feeding everything around with the pure energy of Light: "I am happy that you like it!"
Another woman has accumulated energy with the specific purpose of obtaining favorable conditions for herself from life or from a certain person. She does not give, but bargain. Her beauty is cold and often repulsive. For all the sophistication of her taste, people are unpleasant and uncomfortable to communicate with her, because the energy impulse coming from such beauty tells us: "Is it possible to get something from you?" No light source, no gift, there is a business exchange. Only the lamp is shining, turned on by a great desire to receive. Such a woman will quickly burn out and go out, not gaining anything for her soul, but only having spent the energy of young forces.
You are preparing a festive table, guests will come to you. You want to do everything better than your friend had, so that everyone would admire and think: "Yes, Sveta's table was more gorgeous than Masha's!" You are looking for gourmet recipes and are chasing unthinkable products. Everything is very good and the guests are happy. But something was not enough for complete delight. You did all of this to get their energy of admiration. Well, you've made an equal exchange.
And Masha baked simple pancakes and wanted to please the guests who came. She put the joy of giving into them, not wanting to receive anything in return. Everyone who eats this pancake miraculously tastes together with food a clot of light forces, a stream of fresh energy presented from a big soul just like that, and it seems to him that this is the most delicious dish in the world.
“One torment, but not only hands,” they say among the people, emphasizing the importance of not only torment, but also the hands, the human soul, invested in the work.
People for whom giving is like breathing, for whom it is not difficult to fulfill the second (and main) half of the earthly task, are sources of energy. Giving is easy for them.
A sincere desire to bestow is indeed a very high state of mind, it is the ability to establish a direct channel of communication between the Higher powers and people. You can even say that the Lord God Himself sends His love to people through the person who gives.
People - sources of energy do not actually generate so much forces themselves, but only are conductors of heavenly forces. This is their destiny (if we consider destiny as a task from God the Father to his son or daughter going to earth). Why they got such a fate, we will not consider now. Let's just say that these people have no less problems than others. It's just that these problems are special. All of them are associated with the inability to accumulate their own strength and solve their own karmic problems. It is as if people take high energies and pass them on to others, but they do not know how and even seem to be ashamed to use this energy for themselves. But in vain!
For them, it is the ability to accumulate, oddly enough, expands the soul. However, this is strange only at first glance. Everything should be developed. If people give, not knowing how to accumulate, then sooner or later they will definitely begin to feel annoyed that their own problems are not being solved. This can even cause them anger: "I help everyone, but no one can or does not want to help me!"
But if a person with such a fate learns to use heavenly forces to help solve his problems, then, solving them, overcoming his karma, his soul develops, and therefore expands. Then the task of God the Father is fulfilled in the best way. Fate becomes happy. As you can see, the accumulation of energy and its return are two sides of the same life process, and neither one nor the other can be neglected.
Of course, everyone can be a source of energy. For some it is important in the family, for some in the service, in partnership, in healing. You just need to remember that this high and pure state cannot be imitated, cannot be substituted. Everyone feels this energy, any lie - and there is no longer Light, no gift. You must also remember that in this high state of mind nothing can be lost, it connects you to the high energies of the Cosmos.
"Who knows when to stop, he knows everything," says the wise. Before giving, check whether you have this desire, this state, whether you have something to give. We meet in life unmercenaries striving to help everyone and everyone. Sometimes it is delightful because they have the energy we talked about. And sometimes, looking at such a person, we experience a strange feeling. A kind, seemingly disinterested person evokes pity and irritation, a vague desire to get rid of quickly and run away.
Most often these are hidden "vampires". Under the guise of benevolence and a desire to help everyone, they try to “pull off” our energy of gratitude. Often unconsciously. It's hard to judge them. Because most often these are people who did not receive love in childhood. They try with all their hearts to be good in order to somehow make up for this lack, they want to receive the energy of love and gratitude at any cost, even at the cost of humiliation.
However, as it is easy to deceive the emotions, it is so difficult to deceive the energetic sensations. If you feel that they are pulling from you, then … send your warmth and benevolence to such a person, and God will not leave you.
Be like the sun! The sun shines and warms everything around, wanting nothing in return. Be like the Sun, and you will come closer to it, and you will understand it, and you will become more than just living on Earth, you will become living in the Cosmos, living in Eternity.
Neutral position
The neutral energy stance is about protecting and conserving energy. Each person has moments in life when he should not enter into energy exchange with the people around him. Here is an approximate list of them: when you feel the limit of your strength, tension is on the verge of collapse; you know you need a break; when you feel the presence of a "vampire" and do not want to "feed" him; when you do not want to give any information about yourself; when you are irritated or angry and do not want to throw out your negativity on others, wanting to understand it and deal with it yourself; when you feel mental pressure on yourself and want to maintain your energy freedom.
Every person has the right to enter or not to enter into energetic interaction with the world around him. We are obliged to respect this right in every person. Let's remember: I am free as much as I recognize the freedom of the people around me. Including the freedom to make mistakes!
To believe that it is sometimes necessary to “close” is not at all difficult. But it is much more difficult to learn to “close” and at the same time be neutral. Very often we think that we have “closed”, but instead released thorns and do not notice how we show aggression towards everyone who is around.
How do you get into a neutral energy position? How to hide without disturbing the harmony of the world, as well as the harmony of your inner space?
In energetics this state is called the average mode of attention, in psychology - withdrawal into oneself, in esotericism it is close to the concept of "meditation". This is an altered state of consciousness that is not characteristic of a person in everyday life. Being awake, but being in this state, our brain begins to work as if we were "disconnected" from the outside world. However, at the same time we control all our actions, and our perception of information becomes even more acute, because we become able to highlight only what is important for ourselves. We save energy, but at the same time, it seems that we see the world more clearly and clearly and understand ourselves.