Change yourself
The wise say:
Listen, act and flourish.
There are always opportunities around you.
Which one will you notice first, which one will you use now?
The source of strength in your life is the present.
Here-and-now - here is your dazzling afternoon!
"I wish I knew …" Jim Edwards
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“It’s a pity that I didn’t know before that I could handle any business. It may sound trite, but this is the basis of any achievement (or failure) in a person's life. Now I believe that I can, and therefore I can … but before I thought that I could not, and I could not. If you want to change your life for the better, believe in your own strengths, in what you are entitled to, in what you can achieve if you just apply your mind.
Everything seems obvious … but until you begin to live this conviction, breathe it, until it becomes part of you as a person, you will not stop enjoying the fruits of the past, which (I would bet) are very different from what you really want … Believe in yourself - and your world will change for the better faster than you dreamed!"
Jim Edwards, author of 5 Steps to Becoming Who You Want.
You can be happy right now
Know that happiness is a matter of choice (although if you say it out loud, you are unlikely to be believed). You can be happy right now.
Yes, right now! How?
Simply deciding to be happy.
You don't need a lot of money to do this (although, of course, they won't hurt).
You do not need to lose weight (although you would love it).
You don't need anything at all (although there are some things you might like to have).
You can simply say, "I'm going to be happy right now."
Few know this technique, since few have a guide to their own life.
Smile. And be happy.
If you are not happy, then you are missing out on great opportunities.
Life doesn't have to be hard
Life doesn't have to be hard.
Few know this (unless you read this manual).
Most of the people believe that it is necessary to fight and fight. This is not true. You can let life take its course. The secret is the ability to focus on your desires, solve current problems and believe in this process.
Yes, life can be hard. But it can also be easy.
The difference between the one and the other mainly lies in how you relate to the events taking place.
If you think a marathon is hard, then it won't be easy for you. But if you enjoy running and take the marathon distance as a personal challenge that you welcome, it should be easy for you to run. Yes, you will sweat, strain and gasp, but in this case the marathon will bring you joy.
Everywhere and always the choice is yours!
Everything around you is a projection of yourself
Everything in your life is a projection of the shadow side of your mind. This is difficult to understand.
It is easy to reproach and make excuses. Both provide an opportunity to avoid responsibility.
But you need to build your life on full responsibility.
Everything that you see, looking around, you perceive with your mind, which acts as a kind of filter. Therefore, in order to change anything in your life, you need to change from within.
This is difficult to understand because most people have never been told that their lives are determined by what is inside them.
When someone disappoints you, it is like pressing a button inside you.
When you find yourself in a situation that you do not like, know: it happened because you are so programmed.
If this is so (and this is so), then how is it possible to change everything?
You will have to admit that you provoked this situation yourself. And not only her.
You also have to accept your own thoughts and give them an outlet.
If someone upset you, look at yourself upset, love yourself, and relax. As you change on the inside, you will find that you have changed on the outside. This is a great principle.
Take advantage of it.
You are above yourself
Once I was lying on the operating table. The operation was not difficult, and therefore I was conscious while the doctor dug into my chest - cut and cleaned the wound.
Nothing dangerous happened. I didn’t have a heart operation or a lung transplant. I lay on the table and was awake; it seemed to me that the doctor was repairing a certain mechanism. And I am inside this mechanism. What he did was not happening to me, but to something that belonged to me.
Note:
You have a body. But you are not the body.
You have a mind. But you are not the mind.
You have feelings. But you are not feelings.
You are a being that rises above it all, able to choose and act as you please.
Choose wisely.
Your feelings are hidden thoughts
"Feelings are shadows of thoughts," wrote Michael Rye in his book Why is this happening to me … again?
Your feelings are generated by thoughts, but sometimes it happens to such an extent with lightning speed that you do not have time to hear the thought before it turns into feeling.
Rayet wrote: “Feelings tell you about the nature of the impact of the energy of your thoughts on your physiology. If you feel pain, then you are deluded."
Begin to be aware.
You will understand this idea better when you read this guide and begin to apply it in your life. In the meantime, try to make it clear to yourself that your feelings don't sneak up on you without warning that they can be controlled.
Your feelings come from your thoughts. Try to change your thoughts - and after them your feelings will change. And you can change your life.
Some training is needed here. Enjoy this process.
It's all about the energy that your thoughts guide
Thanks to energy, our whole world exists - you, me, this article, the chair (chair) on which you sit, the room where you are, etc.
Your way of thinking gives shape to energy.
Think, for example, about something negative for a few minutes, and then look in the mirror. You will see that the world around you has darkened. You stooped, frowned, your look became gloomy. The negative thought changed your energy.
Now think about something positive for a few minutes. Look in the mirror. You will see the light. Your shoulders are straightened, your eyes are shining, and there is a smile on your face. The thought changed your energy again.
Thought is capable of changing the energy emanating from you. To help yourself, you need to think positive. Such thoughts will lead you to a happy and rewarding life.
You won't be able to stop your thoughts, but you don't have to listen to them
Your mind works constantly, sometimes awake, then falling asleep - day and night, throughout your life.
The mind is a useful thing. He is needed to walk, talk, drive and live.
However, in the process of life, you will find that some thoughts create a good mood, while others - a bad one. Some thoughts are pleasant, others are not. Some thoughts inspire you, others disappoint.
But there is no need to listen to all your thoughts.
A T-shirt I bought many years ago bore the words "Meditation is not what you think."
Well said.
Meditation is looking into the space behind thoughts. The more attention you pay to this screen on which thoughts appear, the more you are free of them.
Maybe now it seems nonsense to you, so just remember:
"You won't be able to stop your thoughts, but you don't have to listen to them."
Your nature is your actions at the moment
When I was still in college, a friend of mine told me that I was a pessimist by nature. He came to this conclusion, drawing attention to my chronically bad mood, to my gloomy look, to my constant complaints.
After 30 years, I was interviewed on a radio show, and the presenter asked why I exuded optimism. She drew attention to my smile, to the light in my eyes, to my constant exclamations of gratitude and concluded that I am an optimist by nature.
So who am I really? Both an optimist and a pessimist.
Your nature is only the role you play in making certain decisions. Play a different role and your actions will become different. Behave differently long enough - and you will feel that the new behavior has become part of your nature.
Wally Mintos wrote in his Book of Results: “If your role has not yet become a habit, you will know what you are playing. If you have mastered it properly, it will seem to you that it is part of your nature."
If you want to change your life, your nature - start acting in a new way. You may feel uncomfortable at first, as if you were actually playing. But over time, this behavior will become second nature, and others will think that you were born that way.
How to know what you want
Some people say that they themselves do not know what they want. Now, they are lying.
You always know what you want. Although it is possible that you just do not want to admit it.
If you have realized your desires, you need to either start to realize them, or look for reasons why they are not being fulfilled.
Sometimes it's easier to simply say that you don't know what you want. But that's a lie. And you know that. Agree with this.
No one is looking after you. Nobody is listening to you. Well, what do you want?
One gets what he focuses on
People tend to focus on what they don't want. And they get unnecessary. You are smarter. (Right?)
If you want wealth for yourself, focus on wealth.
If you want yourself to be healthy, focus on your health.
If you wish yourself happiness, focus on happiness.
Here's a subtle but potent secret of the universe: you get what you focus on.
The words you describe yourself determine who you become
It is important to realize that by characterizing yourself, you thereby shape yourself.
I do not mean the words you say out loud, although they also matter. I'm talking about the words that you say mentally, to yourself.
Phrases "I'm fat" or "I'm stupid" sound like self-esteem. In reality, these are the commands that made you who you are.
Affirm who you want to become and your words will soon turn into facts.
You are attracted to what you love and hate
You are mostly attracted to what you love and what you hate. This is the “Law of Attraction”.
In other words, if you hate someone or you are unpleasant in some situations, circumstances …, you will encounter them everywhere. Your hatred is a bundle of energy that attracts the same energy to itself.
Likewise, when you truly love something - be it an activity or even a machine - you attract the object of your love into your own life.
Conclusion: the choice of objects of passion must be approached with caution. Understanding that you are in control of the magnet can help you realize your power.
You don't need to modify your body
Look in the mirror. Everything is seen?
You have arms, legs, eyes, ears, right?
It happens that some people lack something, but they still live great. So don't worry if something is too small, too large, or missing at all.
You have everything in place. If you have this thing, you are a man. If not, you are a woman.
Anyway, congratulations. You have everything you need for a normal life. No modification is required.
“Great hair. Great day"
The last of my wives loved to do makeup and hair. Her business card had just one phrase: “Great hair. Great day.
Moral: You should treat yourself well. If that means having a nice haircut or a nice shirt, great. The better you treat yourself, the kinder the world is to you.
Everything is possible
Most people do not realize that they are the masters of their own destiny. Their mindset is that of the victim. This makes it easier to blame and avoid responsibility. There is nothing wrong with that. Everyone needs to start somewhere.
The next step is the thought that life could be different. A person understands that you can do more, have more and be more.
Further - the birth of the belief that nothing is impossible. You are carried away by the idea that life can be better and more beautiful, and perhaps your life can become better and more beautiful.
And finally, the highest level - a person begins to realize that in reality everything that can be desired is possible. The only limitation is your own mental capacity. Go to the highest level.
Everything is possible! You can change your life!
You compose your future yourself
The secret of all time is that you yourself are able to create your future with a fountain pen and imagination!
Take a piece of paper or turn on your computer. Imagine that a year has already passed. Write a letter to your friend as if you have already achieved everything you wanted. Feel the joy. Share your excitement by detailing your own success.
This one action, which can be done whenever you want, can push the Universe to provide you with everything you need to make your desires come true.
Your future starts now - with a fountain pen.
Reaching your goals is easy
Here's how to achieve your goals with ease:
You need to know what you want.
You should feel as if you have already achieved your goal.
You must do what is necessary to achieve the goal. That's all.
Easy, isn't it?
Your mind comes from its own concept
"The mind comes from its own concept."
Better read this phrase again. What does this phrase mean?
It means this: what you believe in becomes a concept that feeds your mind.
What are you thinking now, after reading the phrase “Mind comes from its own concept”?
Whatever you answer, this is the concept that guides your mind.
Do you like what you think about?
"Stop thinking that you are just a consequence of something: know that you are the Cause of yourself!"
Joe Vitale