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The topic of today's conversation is the BLESSING of the newlywed parents. The word "blessing" consists of two words: "good" + "word". Thus, the term "blessing" literally means "a kind, good word." In the Biblical context, blessing means a desire for good (good) in the life of the person being blessed in the name of the Lord.
People can bless each other and even the Lord.
(Psalms 144: 1-3 “I will exalt You, my God, my King, and bless Your name forever and ever. Every day I will bless You and praise Your name forever and ever.”) In this case, “bless” has meaning: "to thank", that is, "good" + "to give". Therefore, when you thank someone, you send him your blessing, which is the warmth and love of your soul. It is necessary, as often as possible, not to forget to thank people for even the smallest service. But at this time you also receive gratitude-blessings from God for your kindness. You may not notice it, but you will have inexplicable joy in your soul. The blessing, as a medicine that resists the "viruses" that infect our body and our soul, restores our strength. You can't slander yourself, claim that supposedly nothing will work out for me, it will work out,if you bless not with your mind, but with the love of your heart. Thank the Lord for what you have (health, children), and He will increase your wealth. Gratitude is also a blessing. If you thank people for some service, work, thereby acknowledging the fact that you needed them. When you say words of gratitude, you are sending them words of blessing. What will pass through your mouth, the Lord will return to you a hundredfold.
In the church, a wedding is also called a priest's blessing. But first, you must come to church for a couple of weeks to the priest for a conversation, then you must confess, receive communion, register the marriage, and only then the blessing of the priest (a stranger). And only then will the wedding take place if the newlyweds are baptized. Age, both for a wedding and for a blessing by parents, is not important.
The blessing of children began on Earth from the day when the Father Almighty, our Heavenly Parent, blessed his first children with life on Earth. This Blessing is in the book "I Knock at Your Heart". Since that distant day, all newlyweds have been blessed by the Heavenly Father Himself. In those days, people had an open spiritual vision and hearing, lived and bathed in the Love of the Heavenly Father-Mother. This happy life went on for many, many millennia, and all because people fulfilled the Father's request. Years passed, gradually the energy-physical bodies of people became physical and people began to move away from God. Man began to put material goods and his "I" in the first place.
Life went on, which means new families were formed. On Earth, they began to celebrate the cheerful, noisy holiday "Birthday of the Family". Siberian Anastasia spoke very well about this holiday in the books of V. Megre. It was from that time that the newlyweds were blessed only by the groom's MOTHER. Like a mother who gave the world a son and takes a daughter, his wife. The mother covers the young family with her wing, helping her in everything. There would be no life without a mother. Why exactly is the groom's mother conducting the blessing? But because Mother Mary gave the world Her Son Jesus Christ as the Savior, as the Protector and Helper in our life. This is the first, and second, that the groom's mother takes the daughter-in-law into her house. And life goes on. The time will come when the daughter-in-law will bless the bride of her son and call her daughter.
In Russia, since ancient times, there has been a ceremony of blessing the newlyweds by their parents. No marriages were made without him. It was believed that without such a blessing, marriage would not be strong, and children would not be born healthy. In the old days, a church wedding did not take place without parental blessing. Weddings in ancient times replaced the modern registration of marriage. To live without a church wedding meant living out of wedlock, which was very much condemned in Russia. Unmarried young people were deprived of inheritance, their children were not recognized, especially in noble families. Therefore, the parental blessing played a significant role in the life of the new family.
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The very process of blessing the young is a confirmation of parental consent for children to marry. It is believed that the married life of newlyweds who have not received the blessing will not improve. Previously, parental refusal often impeded family formation. But in the modern world everything is decided, and not many people act according to the laws of the church.
The blessing ceremony helped new relatives to get closer, since from that moment the groom was considered the son of the bride's parents, and she became the daughter of the groom's parents. Blessing is that energy of Love that gives us the opportunity to develop and move on. Blessing others, we share the warmth of our souls and direct the energy of the Heavenly Father on those who are blessed.
A mother's blessing is a protective cocoon that does not allow the child to get into various unpleasant situations, directs his actions in the right direction. Even over great distances, a mother's blessing works. A person who has received parental blessing becomes invulnerable and successful. At the beginning of some business, on a long journey, for exams, for an important purchase (houses, cars, for example), for study, ask your parents to bless you. Do not hesitate, ask for blessings for yourself, for your children, and you will see how your life will change for the better. You don't have to resort to complicated rituals. The parent's words are enough, for example: “I bless you, my son! God bless your trip to be successful. In the Name of the Father, Son, Holy Spirit and Divine Mother. Amen”(3 times). Try,so that the words are sincere and heartfelt. I must say that it is advisable for a mother to bless her son before the wedding so that he understands that now he is the owner of the future family, and the bride's mother before the wedding also blessed her daughter and said what kind of wife and mistress she should be. The warm words spoken by the parents with the blessing give the young people confidence in the correctness of their choice.
The Heavenly Father has invested so much Fiery Love in the Blessing that this Love is always manifested when the blessing of someone or something comes from the heart. It is as if the human soul opens up and pours the Love of the Heavenly Parent on those who are blessed. And at this moment the Love of the Heavenly Father-Mother and the love of the earthly mother merge. The power of such a Blessing is very great. And if the mother was able to develop the Fiery Love in herself, then her Blessing will spread far around. Love knows no boundaries, and it will enter everyone who was near. Fiery means Divine. It is Divine Love with the Blessing that will be able to burn out evil eyes, negatives, troubles, illuminate the path to unsolved problems, open the path to success and joy. But there are few mothers with a Fiery heart on Earth, but MOTHER'S love is in every mother. Plain, simple, every second,compassionate, heartfelt, sacrificial MOTHER'S LOVE for her children. It is this love that gives children protection, help, hope, joy, success, the main thing is that the children hold the mother's thread tightly. And if something in life is not the way you would like, you have to go to your mother for a blessing. Everything must be done seriously and correctly.
Every home has icons, and you should have a special icon that you always bless children with. A mother with a Fiery heart can bless even without an icon, in any more or less calm place, since Love is already emanating from the mother herself. If there is an icon, good, but there are times when the mother's blessing is necessary, but there is no icon. Bless with your heart, motherly love, hand, but bless your children, than not to do it at all. Don't look for special prayers for blessing. Speak from your heart, bless in your own words and with God's help.
Children, do not wait for your mother to invite you and say: “You have a lot of troubles, my son. Come, I will bless you, and may my love help you in life.”Mother's love will both help and protect. Only you believe and know that motherly warmth is always with you. And do not break the thread that connects you with your mother, your heartlessness, indifference or rudeness.
I must say that a mother's blessing helps all living things. You can bless a sick dog, and ask the Lord for help so that it gets well soon. Your chickens to grow up healthy. Flowers, tomatoes, cucumbers that grow in your garden also need Divine blessings through their mistress. Bless, and pour water with holy water. Yes, not once, but at least once a week and you will see the result in your beds. Even trees can be sprayed with holy water under the prayer and blessing of God. Learn the blessing and apply it whenever possible. This is the great help of the Lord.
Yet there is a special prayer for the blessing of the newlyweds. This prayer was approved and blessed by the Heavenly Father-Mother and the Lord of the Earth and Heaven, Lord Jesus Christ. It is advisable to bless the newlyweds with the icon of the Virgin Mary Mother Mary. Many people take an icon of the Kazan Mother of God for this light ceremony. This icon remains with the young. And it is desirable that after the honeymoon, an icon of Jesus Christ appears in a young family in their Holy Corner. But this is all only at the request of the young spouses. With the icon of the Kazan Mother of God, the mother can bless everyone who wishes for good deeds.
MOTHER'S BLESSING
My dear children, (name of the bride and groom)!
Love brought you together. I BLESS you with my motherly love. And may my love help you and protect you throughout your life path. Join hands, bow your heads, so that my blessing will unite you and make your union strong and unbreakable.
In the Name of the Father, Son, Holy Spirit and Divine Mother. Amen! (3 times).
The Bible contains the words of the Lord Jesus Christ: "let the wife cleave to her husband and they become one." So you, my dear children, have become one from today. And in life you go one way, and you can solve all problems only together. I know that at this moment we are all seen and heard by Heaven. And here at this celebration everyone will receive the BLESSING of the Lord! To consolidate the words of the Lord Jesus Christ here on Earth, I turn to the Heavenly Father:
“Our Father! Our Supreme Lord! I ask You, BLESS your children for your future family life. (They bowed their heads, joined hands. The icon above their heads). UNIT their hearts together. Strengthen their faith in You, in people and in their bright feelings for each other. TEACH your children to cherish their families, to love relatives and friends, to protect the world, the Earth and value life.
Father Almighty! LIGHT the paths (names of young people) with Heavenly Light, PROTECT them with the Power of the Fiery Cross, COVER them with the Love of the Heavenly Father-Mother. In the Name of the Father, Son, Holy Spirit and Divine Mother. Amen! (3 times).
Beloved Mother Mary! I know that you are here and you see and hear everything yourself. You gave the world God, Jesus Christ, and only He will help us find the way to the House of Heaven. I ask You, Beloved Mother Mary, BLESS my children with my Mother's Love. COVER them with a garment of kindness, peace and love. Send them understanding, loyalty, tenderness, kindness and strengthen their love for each other. Be my intercessor and helper to the children. Always be with my children (names of young people)! Beloved Mother Mary! I ask You, BLESS the union of love of my children, save and preserve for many years!
In the Name of the Father, Son, Holy Spirit and Divine Mother. Amen! (3 times). With God! With God! With God in a happy family life!
With this prayer I blessed my children and all the guests who were at the wedding. And now I am sending my Maternal Blessing to everyone who reads this article. In the Name of the Father, Son, Holy Spirit and Divine Mother. Amen! In the Name of the Father, Son, Holy Spirit and Divine Mother. Amen! In the Name of the Father, Son, Holy Spirit and Divine Mother. Amen! PEACE TO ALL!
Lyudmila Gubko