Economists keep repeating about another wave of the financial crisis, and people are already panicking: their pockets are empty anyway - what will happen next ?! And they don't realize that almost 100% of our financial well-being depends solely on us.
SADNESS OF LIFE
Of course, the general economic situation in the country and in the world matters. In stagnant times, for example, which many now remember with nostalgia, it was problematic to become a beggar - there was an article for unemployment, and by hook or by crook people were arranged at least as janitors or watchmen. In a word, the state guaranteed a living wage. But the wealthy in the modern sense of the citizens could be counted on one hand.
However, this system has proved to be unviable. Money (any - both big and small) earns, and does not "receive", as was often said in Soviet times (and many called the salary "pay"). Until a person realizes this fact, it is pointless to move on.
In addition, you need to get rid of the habit of blaming everyone and everything for your failures - the government, the world system, the stock market, your own parents, who were not taught to make money. After all, any accusations are negative impulses that we send into space - and as a result we get even more problems. Note, we get - not mythical world imperialism or whoever you blamed for your misfortunes.
And one more important point. We must really want to part with poverty. And for this you need to reconsider your relationship with money.
A complex relationship with finance is common. Money can be disliked, afraid of, considered evil or the highest good. Many are embarrassed to talk about money, believing that it is indecent for an intelligent person to take an interest in despicable metal. Sometimes it comes to the point that even at an interview when applying for a job, the applicant is embarrassed to ask about the salary - it is not surprising that then he has … what he has.
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A separate story, when money determines a person's self-esteem: at the moment he has enough funds and material benefits - he is satisfied with himself, dwells in the illusion of happiness and well-being. But as soon as there is a financial crisis (global or personal), along with the bank account, self-esteem will be reset … In a word, it is not surprising that financial troubles for many are almost the norm of life.
Meanwhile, if you wish, it is quite realistic to say goodbye to money problems forever, to become a successful and wealthy person who will be able to overcome any economic crisis and even improve personal well-being - regardless of what is happening around.
DANGEROUS "VIRUSES"
First, let's find out where the problems come from, including financial ones. Some of them are inherited. For example, if an ancestor went bankrupt, was dispossessed or did not get out of debt all his life, his unresolved problem will pass to the descendant. Independent work is unlikely to be effective here: in such situations, psychogenetic correction is required. But not all diseases are hereditary - and not all problems. Many grow out of negative attitudes, learned, as a rule, in childhood. We attract some kind of trouble ourselves - by our own judgments, attitude to life.
Let's talk about the most common virus settings that block the possibility of financial well-being. We will also try to understand where they came from.
Many people cannot get rich (and indeed, rise a little higher than the "baseboard") for fear of standing out, not being like everyone else. Feel awkward, if not guilty, if they begin to live better than others. Some are even afraid of someone else's envy (not suspecting that in fact the envious person makes life difficult for himself, and not for those around him).
Of course, I also recall the stable popular stereotype that "you can't get rich by an honest way", as well as "big money means big troubles." Well, and "out of competition": "We never lived well - and there is nothing to start!"
The image of a successful and wealthy person in the minds of the majority is strongly distorted - which also, on a subconscious level, forms a negative attitude towards money. Who is he, a millionaire? Or a soulless well-groomed businessman who has made a fortune on someone else's misfortune (where without that). Or a poor fellow-workaholic who works 24 hours a day, seven days a week, putting on the altar of financial well-being and personal life, and health, and hobbies. No thanks. Better to be “poor but proud”! Everyone chooses for himself, of course.
Someone is afraid of the responsibility associated with big money, robbery (scammers have long reached bank cards), or they think that no one loves a wealthy person - they only love his money … In general, there are a great many harmful stereotypes - and before you get up on the path of prosperity, we must get rid of each of them.
It is easy to understand that such attitudes always find confirmation in real life - negative thoughts attract the corresponding situations.
GIFT AND RETURN
"Virus" installations do not come from the ceiling. Once they were given to you. So try to remember who exactly gave this or that "gift". Perhaps a lazy uncle, who liked to repeat that “horses die from work,” or a father, who was absolutely convinced that “money has only problems,” or a mother, upset by your poor assessment, rashly blurted out: “Nothing good is will come out, all your life you will work hard for a pittance! ". Or maybe … you yourself inadvertently "gifted" yourself, considering yourself complete losers due to some minor mistake?
Each "present" must be returned, even to your "double": in this case, you, realizing that you no longer need a present, return it to yourself, yesterday.
So let's give it a try. Immerse yourself in a flashback and try to remember when you first heard the sacramental “no money, no problem” (for example). What happened at that moment? Perhaps someone from your acquaintances was robbed, and the parents discussed an unpleasant situation? Or, for example, did the father explain in this way his refusal to take a promotion, work overtime, etc.? What did you feel then and what do you feel now when you wear out (including mentally) this setting?
Imagine this belief as an image. Let's say, in the form of an empty wallet or a worn out penny.
Obviously, the "gift" is always with you. What part of the body is it in? Listen to your inner feelings. Did you feel it? Fine. Imagine that the same image grows, taking up more and more space. What are you experiencing now? If the unpleasant sensations intensified, it means that the “gift” really prevents you from living. Now mentally return it to its original size.
Imagine the person who gave you this gift, mentally pick up the object whose image you presented initially, sincerely, without irritation, thank for the "present", saying that at a certain moment in your life it turned out to be useful (for example, persuasion taught you to be careful), but you don't need it anymore.
Imagine a person picking up a gift and leaving.
A place where a negative attitude has lived for many years must be immediately filled with a positive belief. Think about your merits, which could help you become more successful, make money. Let's say you are an experienced skilled worker worthy of a high salary. Get in touch with this thought, believe in it - and imagine it as … a golden star, for example. Take a look at the new image: it is important that you like it very much, without any "buts", and evoke extremely pleasant emotions and associations. Now calmly, with confidence and love for yourself and the world, place the new gift in the space that has been vacated. Put your hand on it, thank yourself for a useful gift. How do you feel now?
Gradually, you will return all the "gifts", replace harmful attitudes with useful ones - and then the process of changes for the better will begin, fate will attract to you situations that will strengthen your financial well-being, you will say goodbye to poverty, and you will perceive the crisis not as a threat, but as new opportunities.
Psychologist Dmitry Kalinsky