- It is best to deal with the things of the deceased in the same way as with clothes - to distribute to the poor. If there are things close to his heart among his things, then they can be kept somewhere in a secret remote place and taken out only when you want to remember your relative
- If a thing is directly related to the suffering and death of a sick person, then it is better to get rid of it by burning
- If during his lifetime a person gave instructions to his relative with regards to some things, then it is best to do with them in the way the deceased wanted
Can I keep and wear the things of a deceased person?
- As mentioned above, it is best to get rid of such things. However, there are things that are very difficult to part with. They can be stored, but it is not recommended to take such clothes out of the closet for a long period of time. You can wear clothes after the deceased no earlier than 40 days after his death. - Some people recommend to postpone such a thing at least a year after the death of a person - Psychics suggest cleaning the clothes of the deceased with the help of the same holy water and salt. You can simply soak a thing in a water-salt solution for a while, and then wash it thoroughly.
Is it possible to give the deceased's belongings to relatives?- If a relative himself insists that he would like to keep the memory of the deceased in the form of this or that little thing, then you should not deny him this. You just need to ask him to pray for the soul of the deceased - If, being in full health, the deceased bequeathed his things to one of his relatives, then it is better to fulfill his will and give what was promised
Is it possible to keep the belongings of the deceased at home?- Of course, it is possible to store the things of a deceased person, but is it necessary? - It is believed that after a person leaves for another world, in his house, apartment, room, complete order must be restored. The best option, of course, would be a new renovation. However, if this is not possible, then it is necessary to take out all the trash from the room, throw out old, obsolete things, distribute suitable things to those in need, and do a general cleaning with disinfection - If a thing is as expensive as memory, then it can be hidden away from human eyes. It is best to wrap such a thing in a rag or an opaque bag and put it away for a while in a “far corner”.
Is it possible to wear the shoes of a deceased relative?- The lot of shoes of the deceased is the same as the lot of his clothes and other things - it is best to distribute, but you can also keep as a keepsake - There is only one rule common to all - in no case should you wear clothes and shoes removed from the deceased, especially the deceased by a violent death.
Is it possible to keep the cross of a deceased relative?
- The pectoral cross is a powerful source of spiritual strength and karma of a person - According to Christian customs, it is customary to bury a person together with his cross - If for some reason the pectoral cross did not fall into the coffin with its owner, then it can be stored in a house in a separate box or bag - If the owner of the cross was a bad person, died of suicide or a violent death, then it is better to say goodbye to such a cross - to give it to the church, to those in need, or to melt it down for something else
Can a deceased relative's cross be worn? - If a person has lived a decent life, then you can ask the representatives of the church if his relatives are allowed to wear his pectoral cross. Perhaps the clergyman will propose to conduct a ritual of purification over the cross - You can also stand the cross yourself at home in holy water for several days, or even months.
Is it possible to wear the watch of a deceased relative?- A watch is a rather personal thing, capable of retaining the imprint of its owner for a long period of time - If a deceased person lived a happy life and was in good relations with his relatives, then they will have nothing from wearing his watch - If the deceased led an unworthy lifestyle and was at enmity with your loved ones, then it is better to get rid of his watch - In any case, putting a watch on your hand, you will feel whether you want to wear it or not.
Is it possible to wear jewelry of deceased relatives?- Precious metals and stones have a very good memory. They are able to remember their first owner for years and even decades - If the jewelry got to relatives from a benevolent deceased person, then there should be no trouble from wearing it. Some stones, such as opal, very quickly rebuild to a new energy and forget their former owner - If the deceased was engaged in witchcraft or other magic with the help of this decoration, then it is generally better to get rid of him. To continue the work of your relative, that is, to associate yourself with the world of magic, it is advisable only to those heirs to whom the deceased passed on his secrets and knowledge.
What to do with the gold of a deceased relative, can it be worn? - As for gold, it can be equated with jewelry.
What to do with the icons of a deceased relative? - Icons are considered heirlooms - in the old days, during a fire, icons were first taken out of the house - It is best to take the icon of a deceased relative for yourself and place it next to your icons.
What to do with the dishes of a deceased relative? - The dishes of a deceased relative, again, are best distributed to those in need - If the deceased's archive contains family silverware or services, then they can be washed, cleaned and kept at home.
Can I use the phone of a deceased relative?- A telephone is a relatively new thing in our life, therefore, neither the church nor our grandmothers and grandfathers yet have an unambiguous opinion on this matter - If the phone is expensive, then you can continue to use it - If the device is already quite outdated, then again you can do a good deed and give the phone to the beggars - let them pray for the deceased once again - If the phone was in the pocket of the deceased at the time of suicide or violent death, then it is better not to keep such a thing