People often complain about fate, not thinking that at any moment they can radically change their lives for the better. This unique ability is given to us by nature. What is this magic power, you ask? Look for the answer in your heart. You're right: this is love.
BASIC SENSE
Love really works wonders. It erases negative memories, grievances, disappointments that poison our lives, attract a variety of problems that cause serious illness. It would seem that it could be simpler: to love yourself, your loved ones, the whole world - and live a full, happy life. However, in reality, everything turns out to be much more complicated: love (in the broadest sense of the word) meets many obstacles on its way. Most people don't even realize that they are … incapable of true love.
Patients come to me with certain diseases. And it often turns out that the true cause of the disease is the lack of love. At the same time, a person is sure that he loves his children and parents, his husband or wife, friends, relatives, life … And there is no place left for love for himself in his heart …
Meanwhile, this is the most important, basic feeling. If a person does not love himself, he is not able to give love to others. At least true love. Sometimes we do not notice how we substitute concepts, we think that we love our loved ones, but, in fact, we have completely different feelings for them - pity and compassion, a sense of duty and even a sense of guilt. With such a baggage, it is impossible to be happy and give joy to others - and these are unmistakable markers of true love.
ONLY WITHOUT VICTIMS
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What happens when a person cares about family and friends, forgetting about himself, about personal interests? I'll tell you: he voluntarily takes the position of the victim. And where there is a sacrifice, there is no and cannot be love. By sacrificing our time, energy, attention, we can feel satisfaction, realize that we are doing everything possible for our loved ones - but deep down we will remain unhappy. It is this negative impulse that we unconsciously send into the world - and it reciprocates to us: it attracts problems, experiences, diseases into life: the “boomerang rule” always works.
Therefore, the best thing that you can do for yourself personally, and for your loved ones, and for the world in general is to learn to love and accept yourself unconditionally. As Louise Hay said, "Unconditional love is just love, unconditional."
OPEN YOUR HEART
Some are afraid of love, believing that this feeling is directly related to suffering. And, again, they are mistaken. Yes, love can be difficult, but if it is true, then there can be no talk of any suffering. Even when you have to leave. Many young women abandoned by their husbands came to me in a state of deep depression. They could not think about work or about children - only about their ex-spouse, or rather, about his betrayal. Accusation, self-pity, thoughts that fate is cruel and unfair, caused not only mental, but also somatic problems. But if all these women initially loved themselves, then their feelings would be completely different. Yes, after parting, you can feel sadness and sadness for some time - this is natural! How can these feelings be distinguished from resentment or pity? Just:if you, even at the moment of experiencing loss, sincerely wish good for yourself and your former partner, do not blame anyone, accept the situation, then everything is in order: you love yourself and others, and very soon fate will give you the opportunity to regain personal happiness.
So, dear readers, if you wish yourself and your loved ones well, health, prosperity, learn to love unconditionally. Louise Hay's affirmations will help you take the first step. Repeat them daily, trying to feel, live every word - and positive changes will not keep you waiting.
LOUISE HAY AFFIRMATIONS
Love is happening! I let go of my desperate hunger for love and in return let love find me in the best time and best place.
Love is everywhere and joy fills my whole world.
I happily bathe in the love I meet every day.
Life is very simple. What I give comes back to me. Today I choose to give love.
I attract love and romance into my life, and I accept it now.
I look in the mirror with pleasure, saying "I love you, I really love you."
I deserve right now - love, romance and joy, and all the good things that life has to offer me.
I am surrounded by love. Things are good.
My heart is open. I speak in words of love.
My relationship is safe, I give and receive a lot of love.
I only attract healthy relationships. I am always treated well.
I am so grateful for all the love in my life. I find her everywhere.
Galina TABAKOVA, healer