The ten most common types of lies, one might even say, are myths that people today revered as the great truth of life and which they are guided by in their everyday life.
Lonely, because without a pair
Nonsense! If a person could not find his soul mate, this does not mean that he is lonely. And, if someone really believes that life is "incomplete" without a spouse, then it is worth considering that personal and marital relations did not bring happiness to everyone. And yet, it is better to be left without your mate than to feel abandoned and lonely in the circle of a large family, in a “wrong” relationship. Having found a "soul mate" at the age of well over thirty, and, realizing that this person does not promise anything "good", it is better to break the relationship. You shouldn't think: "It's better this way than none at all." Dedicate your life to yourself, find yourself, regain your self-esteem. In addition, the next time (if this happens), when the relationship will spoil life, psychologically you will be ready for this. This means that you will quickly find a way out of the situation.
Happy is he who has everything
Even when a person has everything, he still wants something more. A person can be grateful for what he has, but he will always expect newness. Sometimes, not noticing the little things that make his life bright, magical, a person strives for more, better, fresh. But you need to appreciate not only every day, but every moment, believe me, it's worth it! It is so pleasant to remember the good old days in old age, flipping through the photo album. Well, if you spend your life in a constant race for the best, what then can you remember?
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It is immediately clear that a person is bad
Every person is hurt, bad or scared. Simply, someone skillfully knows how to hide this feeling, remaining a smiling person. The human soul is dark, the door is closed for outsiders, therefore it is a waste of energy to think and judge the state of a person only in appearance. If you have free time in your life, then it is better to spend it with your family than judging and examining people, trying to determine their inner state.
Life must go according to plan. And nothing else
No one will harm your life as much as you can do it yourself. Having inflicted a wound on our soul, we ourselves can heal it. What is required for this? It is enough to be realistic. A person always has a choice of how to relate to certain situations. Therefore, it is better to immediately abandon unrealistic thoughts and perceive your life as it really is. Change everything in life that lends itself to change. Move only forward.
Gotta be like someone
Better to immediately give up the thought of being like someone. As psychologists say, as soon as you become yourself, real, life will immediately change and acquire new colors. In addition, they claim that as soon as you stop constantly comparing yourself to someone, at this very moment, life will change for the better.
A great life is not for everyone
This is generally a depressing myth that makes life unbearable. At the same time, if every morning in front of the mirror you say to yourself: “Today is a great day!”, “I live a happy life!”, And even if you fall asleep with such a thought, then, after a couple of months you can realize that you are living in joy, and life will start surprising you with pleasant surprises.
Nobody wants hard times
Alas, in order to realize that life is beautiful, sometimes a person must experience the burden of a difficult time. And sometimes, and go through all seven circles of hell. And in order to meet the right person, you need to get rid of the presence of those who interfere with your life. But in order to test himself strong, a person must feel weak at least once in his life. And in order to gain inviolability, one must experience for oneself what a split in the soul is. And to find your “soul mate” and live life with this person, you have to go through a crowd of people. Therefore, with an open gaze and with an embrace, meet both the good and the bad, because both give us life experience.
Strong is the one who does not feel pain
Sometimes even a strong person can experience pain, both mental and physical. Thanks to this pain, a person learns to be strong, to overcome obstacles. It helps to learn: to ask for a break, to shed a tear somewhere, in some situation to dust off and move on.
Lying can be "for good"
This is definitely not correct and not normal. For example, in order to say the three cherished and long-awaited words "I Love You", one must really love. But, for some reason, in our world these words are "passable", "empty", meaning nothing. Saying to someone: "Thank you", you need to be really grateful to this person. Apologizing, sorry, sorry, sympathize with someone. And you yourself will understand that when words are backed up by feeling, people will be imbued with you with all their heart, with all their soul.
Dreaming is wasting time
The dream is the greatest gift. After all, people who love and know how to dream can feel a lot with their hearts. What a person sees in his dreams is already part of the future realization. The dream helps to look beyond the horizon, to imagine what will soon become possible, but is still hidden for some reason. Someday, somewhere, you will surely be greeted by the incredible, the imaginary, and you will have enough strength and money to make all your dreams come true …
