Just don't try to control everything
Humans have a deep psychological need to feel that the universe is controllable, or at least predictable. As a species, we convince ourselves that we can influence random events, psychologists call this the "illusion of control." The good news is, in a way, you can "improve your luck."
For starters, forget about the impact on the outcome of truly random events, such as a coin toss or a lottery draw. You should also avoid trying to create your own luck by focusing on the results you desire. Research by psychologists Gabriel Ettingen and Doris Meyer shows that the more a person fantasizes about getting a good job, the less money they end up making, perhaps because fantasy replaces the effort they might have put into the real world.
"Luck" is an ambiguous term. We use it to describe the pure chance of life, but also to explain the emergence of opportunities that are needed at a certain moment. Open yourself up to new people and experiences, and you're much more likely to meet your future employer - or the love of your life - than if you're sitting at home. The best approach is not to focus specifically on what you want, but to develop a radical openness to unplanned experiences, loosen control over achieving goals, and embrace uncertainty.
Uncertainty makes us feel uncomfortable, so there is a temptation to do everything in our power to get rid of it. But patience can bring you more luck. Don't give up on your daily schedule, but make sure there is room for the unexpected. Spend an hour at the bookstore, invite a random acquaintance for coffee. In social networks, subscribe to people whose hobbies you do not share yet. Leave extra time for errands that may require spontaneous workarounds.
